I Am Different [Being Different]

[c=#7700B2]Or at least they keep telling me that don't understand why every dude I meet says that to me? I ask every time what do you mean different? In what way? Is that a good thing?
They all say the same thing "different good" or "wife material " what the hell does that even mean?
I'm starting to feel like some sort of freak to all the dudes I keep agreeing to date or talk to.
Usually soon after they say that I stop all contact with them... I don't know why other than it makes me feel uncomfortable, like they are trying to figure me out.
So, I guess I'm different than the "others" whatever that means. I sure wish they would actually tell me why. I know I'm unique like every human is, but that's natural and good.
I'm done dating for a while 😕[/c]

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xbandoleerx · 56-60, M

Like attracts like as well as recognizes too. A cobbler can't realize the true worth of a jewel;only a jeweller can!

SW-User

it means they want to bang you

Micromint · 36-40, F

Is that what guys say to get ladies into bed?

SW-User

pretty much

Micromint · 36-40, F

That's good to know- what a lame way to go about it. They might have actually got somewhere until they say that. @mikowee:

Invisible · 26-30, M

I can't imagine that it's in any way negative

SW-User

Lmao imagine they tell every girl that so in reality you're not different at all.

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SW-User

Aren't you being negative

Micromint · 36-40, F

No, not negative at all. There's more to the story... I'm not a negative person.

SW-User

@Cityyy: no. there are girls who are different. As you go through life, people typically have the same patterns. There are some that don't and you typically don't forget them.

Fishes71 · 51-55, M

I wouldn't be offended by it. I think they're trying to compliment you. You're your own person. You look at things a bit differently than most. In my opinion it's a good quality.

Winterwanderer · 26-30, M

Your words, your understanding of the world.

Micromint · 36-40, F

[c=#7700B2]do you think that's what it may be?[/c]

Winterwanderer · 26-30, M

or at least one aspect of it. Maybe you're [i]more[/i] different? Because you could technically say everyone is different because they are, but not everyone is necessarily very far departed from the norm, or from the norms - and maybe you are.

But I don't know if that makes you feel any better. I'm just trying to give you some sort of answer.

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