I Am Different [Being Different]

[c=#7700B2]Or at least they keep telling me that don't understand why every dude I meet says that to me? I ask every time what do you mean different? In what way? Is that a good thing?
They all say the same thing "different good" or "wife material " what the hell does that even mean?
I'm starting to feel like some sort of freak to all the dudes I keep agreeing to date or talk to.
Usually soon after they say that I stop all contact with them... I don't know why other than it makes me feel uncomfortable, like they are trying to figure me out.
So, I guess I'm different than the "others" whatever that means. I sure wish they would actually tell me why. I know I'm unique like every human is, but that's natural and good.
I'm done dating for a while 😕[/c]

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SW-User

Lmao imagine they tell every girl that so in reality you're not different at all.

Micromint · 36-40, F

pretty much what I've thought.

SW-User

@Micromint: That wasn't my initial thought though. I guess there was something different and genuine about you that sets you apart from other girls, and that it's a good thing even if they cannot spell it out in words for you. Isn't it kinda rude to them to stop all contact after a while. =/

Micromint · 36-40, F

It could be, but like you said they probably say that to every girl. I could just be jaded but something in me says run @Cityyy:

SW-User

Aren't you being negative

Micromint · 36-40, F

No, not negative at all. There's more to the story... I'm not a negative person.

SW-User

@Cityyy: no. there are girls who are different. As you go through life, people typically have the same patterns. There are some that don't and you typically don't forget them.