I Am Different [Being Different]

Or at least they keep telling me that don't understand why every dude I meet says that to me? I ask every time what do you mean different? In what way? Is that a good thing?
They all say the same thing "different good" or "wife material " what the hell does that even mean?
I'm starting to feel like some sort of freak to all the dudes I keep agreeing to date or talk to.
Usually soon after they say that I stop all contact with them... I don't know why other than it makes me feel uncomfortable, like they are trying to figure me out.
So, I guess I'm different than the "others" whatever that means. I sure wish they would actually tell me why. I know I'm unique like every human is, but that's natural and good.
I'm done dating for a while 😕

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Winterwanderer · 26-30, M

Your words, your understanding of the world.

Micromint · 41-45, F

do you think that's what it may be?

Winterwanderer · 26-30, M

or at least one aspect of it. Maybe you're more different? Because you could technically say everyone is different because they are, but not everyone is necessarily very far departed from the norm, or from the norms - and maybe you are.

But I don't know if that makes you feel any better. I'm just trying to give you some sort of answer.