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Its been 8 years...

Since I told her I'd wait for her. She went to find herself. It's been 8 years and I havent heard from her. Shes probably moved on. I still think of her. I probably mean nothing to her. Why do I do this to myself?
SW-User
At some point you got to realise the duck is dead in the water
Spokeskitties75 · 46-50, M
@SW-User the duck isn’t in the pond anymore
SW-User
Because you cared deeply for her. But, you need to let her go. 8 years without a word means that she didn't have the guts to tell you that she didn't feel about you, the way you felt about her.
SolGryn · 31-35, M
@SW-User oh..
SW-User
@SolGryn I'm sorry. I don't mean to hurt you by saying that. It's just easier for me to see it from an objective position and you need to free yourself from those thoughts. It's time to move on and find someone worthy of you. She wasn't.
SolGryn · 31-35, M
@SW-User I will do my best
SW-User
Go get yourself laid bruh.
It's okay to feel that way. I still have very fond memories of someone from 10 years ago. But life is very short and she moved on a long time ago.
SolGryn · 31-35, M
OnePatheticClown · 51-55, M
From my own experience, face the facts and let it go...otherwise a really thorny roads waits for you ahead...
SolGryn · 31-35, M
@OnePatheticClown I need to move on...
SW-User
Actually I have rethought my initial comment. Wait another 8 years.
SW-User
Um, you think...
SolGryn · 31-35, M
@Nanori I need to let it go...
Nanori · F
@SolGryn in your head you've imagined to be in a perfect relationship with her, now letting go in ur situation is like breaking up an ideal relationship, and eventually facing the harsh reality
Your mind and heart resist, they don't wanna feel the pain that comes with it
SolGryn · 31-35, M
@Nanori I see
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SolGryn · 31-35, M
So don't waste another day on someone who does not deserve you.
Spokeskitties75 · 46-50, M
@InOtterWords exactly... not another second
SolGryn · 31-35, M
@InOtterWords thank you. I will try
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
You are not feeling so good it’s not unusual our minds go to the negative. Try to think of that idea as a happy one. You want her happy. Now once you are healed focus on what new things, places & people could advance your own happiness. There’s so much out there try not to limit yourself. 🌻
SolGryn · 31-35, M
@Mrsbetweenfatandfit thank you. I will try..
tenente · 100+, M
people are shit 🙄

 
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