I've dropped the concept of should and should not when it comes to people and relationships. I accept those I can, and hope they accept me. Time tells whether someone will show up for me or not. Often the people who showed up were those I did not even consider as friends.
For me real friendship comes from previously shared experiences that have helped to bind us to some degree. Someone I know we can mutually & safely confide in. We have each others back.
Supportive. Yet tells you the truth, not what you want to hear. Always acts in love. Challenges you. Loyal. He'll stand by you when no one else will, no matter the consequence. Gives and doesn't count the cost. Of himself, of his time, and talents. Cherishes the roads you've travelled together. Picks up in the middle of the night. A man you admire. Hasn't changed.
Having a good time, having each others' backs, knowing and keeping secrets, giving good advice, having some shared interests and never making your friend feel alone
I'm not the kind of person who deserves to have friends. I'm just there for somebody when they are at their worst to offer support but at other times I don't want to bother spending time with them. What do I expect ? Authenticity. Sighs. Lol
@Syntonic very true but my best friend and I have been friends since we were in 7th grade and she’s more like my sister. When you have a good friend you have to treasure them and be good to them also!