What do you feel about a man That left a woman standing at the altar with a baby on the way?

Let me just say, as a woman who was with a man who didn't want the children he created. He knew nobody's else wanted him. He would be on the street. So he used those kids while he hated me and them just so he'd have a roof over his head food to eat. My kids were raised in an environment they didn't deserve. And when I tried to make him leave he threatened to kidnap them and leave them with a drug addict mother who made him the screwed up mess he was. My 3 daughters now have PTSD and anxiety because of the way he treated them and the way he just decided to walk out on them. That baby won't ever miss what it's never had. If she loves it and it has uncle's and other male figures helping to raise it. I'm proof. It's better than having a father that's so verbally and physically abusive that you have to watch your mother get in front too shield you. I would die for those girls. And I almost had to kill for them a few times. It's better to be alone just her and the baby than to subject the baby to anything like this. I've been doing it without him for 7 glorious years now. It's very possible. And so much easier.

Mamapolo2016 · F

I agree with CharlieZ. That’s not a man, and bless her, she’s better off.

Except in extreme circumstances (you just ten minutes ago received proof she lied to you and it’s not your baby), there is no reason for a decent person to leave ANYBODY standing at the altar.

CharlieZ · 70-79, M

May be mine is an unpopular opinion.
A relationship may or not work.
But a guy who avoids taking care of his daughters or sons, is neither reliable as a husband.