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If you expect compensation for a good deed you've done then it's not a good deed but a service.
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SW-User
No I don鈥檛 but if I am loyal to them I expect the same and the same respect. I feel owed nothing but that . I will return kindness to anyone who has shown me any.
SW-User
no, I do nice things because I want to. I do expect at least respect and general kind treatment, but I never do things to get something in return.
indyjoe 路 56-60, M
You know that is the irony of it...when I do something good for or give something to someone I don't ever expect them to "repay" me (I mean with the exception of maybe a loan or borrow type situation), but I actually sort of hate to ask for anything from or of anyone or have them just do it without my asking because I feel indebted and even obligated to them (even if it isn't true)...it's weird.
HannibalAteMeOut 路 22-25, F
@indyjoe indeed, kind of a paradox, but attitudes like yours make relationships better in my opinion 馃檪
indyjoe 路 56-60, M
@HannibalAteMeOut Thank you. It's just always worked for me.
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midnightsun 路 26-30, M
No and yes.
I expect nothing in return from people but at the same time I expect them to be with me when I need help
I expect nothing in return from people but at the same time I expect them to be with me when I need help
HannibalAteMeOut 路 22-25, F
@midnightsun isn't that something, though?
midnightsun 路 26-30, M
@HannibalAteMeOut well. People in general are weird
HannibalAteMeOut 路 22-25, F
@midnightsun true 馃槃
SW-User
Not at all. . I just believe in doing onto others as you would have them do unto you 馃檪
HannibalAteMeOut 路 22-25, F
@SW-User that's one way to view it 馃檪
SW-User
Thanks 馃檪@HannibalAteMeOut
TheOneyouwerewarnedabout 路 41-45, MVIP
I never ask for help or favours because I鈥檒l feel I鈥檒l owe..
HannibalAteMeOut 路 22-25, F
@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout some people do it without being asked.
DwayneLungu 路 26-30, M
1 is no and 2 is yes [@SissorhandsFingeredMe]
SW-User
I know more about the latter feeling...
Gangstress 路 41-45, F
1. No
2. Yes
2. Yes
Imsleepy 路 31-35
Yes and yes.
wackidywack 路 22-25
No and yes 馃
Unquestioned 路 70-79, M
No. I just do my best when people need.