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To straight edge people: how do you do that?

Like drugs and alcohol makes things so much easier to deal with. I have to hit the Dutch every day before work or else I will snap at everyone. I’m a short tempered person lol but when I’m high I’m so calm and friendly 😂 the same when I sneak in booze with me. I mean I do it on my days off too but I save my pills for then. Idk man it just makes life easier. I couldn’t imagine life sober again, I’m so much happier now, and I used to talk shit that I would never drink or do drugs.
NickiHijab · F
I’ve tried weed a few times but that’s literally it. I’ve never drank and never will and I have my reasons for that. Generally speaking? I don’t like the idea of depending on something else for me to feel good or in charge. True control comes with learning. That being said, I couldn’t care less whether people choose to do it or not, I understand the reasoning. You do you honey boo.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
[quote]Like drugs and alcohol makes things so much easier to deal with.[/quote]
Even as a drug user myself, that is really depressing to hear someone say.

[quote]Idk man it just makes life easier. I couldn’t imagine life sober again, I’m so much happier now, and I used to talk shit that I would never drink or do drugs.[/quote]
No you're not happier, if you were happy you wouldn't say that.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@MorbidCynic Nobody offered advice, we offered evaluation of yours.

Regardless, straight edge doesn't appeal to me because of their opposition to violence. No drugs, no booze, and no sex sounds fine to me, especially that last one. But no violence?! What's the point of a punk subculture if you can get into fights?
@BlueMetalChick I’m just saying I general. People throw random advice on some of my posts that I’m never asked for 😂 I never asked for an evaluation either. Idk why it just seems pointless to do to random online people.

I’m actually very non-confrontational but I’ll admit that I’ll stand up for myself if someone wants to start shit.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@MorbidCynic I'm extremely confrontational lol
Scribbles · 36-40, F
Straight edge people have healthier coping habits I expect. idk.

I was an alcoholic in my teens and early twenties, until I quit to cope with my problems in a healthier way-well...except for special occassions and then I try to limit myself to 1 or 2 drinks. When I don't, I feel like a mess. Recently I went on vacation and three of the nights including far more booze then I'd normally drink. 2 weeks later... I'm still riding a wave in which every hour my brain is saying "God, I need a drink" and "what am I doing, when I could be somewhere doing blow job shots of vodka or whiskey in glasses on someone's crotch".-like I was in my early twenties.
@Scribbles blow bob shots of vodka? Wtf is that even? 😂
Scribbles · 36-40, F
@MorbidCynic It's a drinking game...of sorts?
You have two people sitting/lying down/etc facing each other and they take turns holding a shot of booze on or near or up against their crotch area. And the other person has to drink it without using their hands.

When participators start to get drunk the game quickly starts to get a little crazy sometimes.

The original drink called a blowjob has this creamier booze topped with whipped cream. but I was never a big fan of alot of whipped cream.
SW-User
I guess what I find hypocritical about this whole thing is that if someone requires prescription pills to get through life, we see nothing wrong with that. That's fine. If you take anti-depressants, good for you. But if someone does the same thing with weed, suddenly that's evil and wrong? What makes one chemical better than another? Just because a doctor gave it to you? It's still a mind-altering chemical that you rely on to get through life.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@SW-User Nothing does. If you require a medication just to live, then there's obviously a problem. I mean, yeah it's better for someone to have their antidepressants than to be suicidal all the time but it doesn't make it GOOD. It's still bad that they require an outside substance to cancel out that kind of behavior.
SW-User
@BlueMetalChick I can agree with that. [i]Requiring[/i] an outside substance to live is itself a problem (i.e. it's never ideal).
Congratulations, you’re an addict
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@MorbidCynic Then that would lead me to wonder about your brain chemistry. And believe me, as someone with a royally fucked up brain chemistry myself, I know how that goes 🙄
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I’m so attractive
SW-User
I used to drink, smoke cigarettes and weed, and did drugs. I wanted something to help deal with the pain of life.

I eventually realized that being stoned, drunk, or buzzed was not fulfilling my life. I came to faith in Christ and my whole world changed, and I no longer needed to be high, drunk, or wasted.
SW-User
I don't drink to "deal with" things. That's an addict's reason for drinking or doing drugs.

The only times I drink (which may add up to a couple times a year) is to have fun with friends. I only drink when I'm already in a good mood and ready to relax.
@SW-User I mean I drink for fun too. I drink so even my job will be less of a pain
wildbill83 · 36-40, M
because all that crap is just a temporary fix/minor escape, and the more you use them, the more you lose touch with reality.

on the other hand, deal with enough pain and hardship long enough with a clear mind, eventually you become somewhat numb to it
Nobody28 · M
I tried some of a friend's medicinal weed yesterday one puff of cool winter and I'm sold now and yeah that's wierd I don't get it either id smoke weed all the time if I could hopefully trump will legalize it soon
MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M
I remember saying I’d never do drugs or drink too. I’ve done every single drug out there except a few I haven’t tried. My drug of choice is pain killers I love them shits but I don’t plan on taking them forever
SW-User
The thought of something altering my mind scares me so I don’t do it
@SW-User That's funny I have the exact opposite thinking XD
SW-User
@MrBlueGuy You mean you can’t think about dealing with life sober?
@SW-User Well I'm exaggerating a bit haha. I'm sober 99% of the time BUT I do enjoy perturbing my consciousness now and then the thought of living 100% sober is a bit offputting.
stained · 13-15, M
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Yeah, I used to get high on life..but eventually I built up a tolerance -_-
SW-User
Easy, I fix my problems instead of run from them.
@SW-User I fix mine too lol but my main problem is that every thing I life eventually becomes bleak and dull
SINAI · T
I think those are for people that can't handle what life throws at them.
SINAI · T
@MorbidCynic From what you said earlier, I think not.
@SINAI don’t read too much into it lol
SINAI · T
@MorbidCynic Hey man, whatever you gotta do to get by.
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@DeadCrow I am changing jobs and I’m not the only one who does it 😂
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DDonde · 31-35, M
I just made the decision to never drink. My family has alcoholics and I know statistically that would make me more likely to become one myself. Honestly, I think if I had started drinking in college like everyone else, I would be dead.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@MorbidCynic Yes. And crack is not an opioid. Heroin is an opioid, so is codeine, morphine, and fentanyl. Those are all chemically addictive.
@BlueMetalChick well whatever 😂 I’ll go do crack then
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@MorbidCynic Most drugs are NOT chemically addictive. Almost no hallucinogens are, with the sole exception of salvia. Meaning LSD, magic mushrooms, DMT, peyote/mescaline, and ecstasy (if that can be counted as a hallucinogen) are not. Neither are crack and cocaine. All opioids and all barbiturates are addictive, so secanol, barbitol, any kind of hypnotic, etc.
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
I've never done drugs not prescribed to me and usually stop taking them as soon as possible. I don't like the taste of alcohol nor the effects, so I also do not drink. My body has always been deformed and broken to some extent. So my identity is almost entirely mental. Impairing my mind feels like being physically restrained or trying to swim with weights on. I can't stand it, it feels so bad and gross.
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
I enjoy a drink on occasion so I’m not that interesting title above but my reason for not using those things to ease pains in life is fear of continuing the trend of addiction in my family. I’m uninterested in joining a group that destroys themselves. Not everyone who dies drugs & drinks does so but for myself the risk is high enough I just avoid it.
@Mrsbetweenfatandfit I get it. My uncle is a heroine addict. I feel like as long as I don’t do crazy shit like that or meth, I’m good.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@MorbidCynic *heroin
Heroine is a female hero.

Sorry. I know grammar Nazi-ing is stupid but that's a pet peeve of mine because of Lorde's album "Pure Heroine".
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