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Sugar Relationships

Opinions?
They're fine with me, I might even consider getting into one. 🤔

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DarkHeaven ·

I’d rather be poor.

Ferric67 · M

With a golden heart, you'll be rich with your soul@DarkHeaven

Azrael2 · 22-25, T

@DarkHeaven okayyy

DarkHeaven ·

@Azrael2 most of the time, I don’t care wether I live or die anyways. It’s okay.

CountScrofula · 41-45, M

I have nothing against any arrangement between consenting adults. However, I think it should be considered a form of sex work in terms of the ethics involved. Not that it is unethical, but in terms of the power relationships involved in the exchange.

DarkHeaven ·

@CountScrofula It’s a very dangerous dynamic. One that could go horribly wrong at any time.

CountScrofula · 41-45, M

@DarkHeaven Right. It's why I think treating it as sex work is important - it reframes the mind and starts to bring into questions about consent and safety.

DarkHeaven ·

@CountScrofula I totally get it. ✌️

SW-User

I don't care what two consenting adults do, but I do think the dynamic could present some problems if the sugar baby really needs the money and gets stuck with a manipulative/abusive sd/sm

Azrael2 · 22-25, T

@SW-User oh yes! That is always a danger...that's why people should select their sd/sm carefully!!

Northwest · M

I believe a woman, or a man, should be free to use whatever assets they have, to make a living. In a free society, someone should be able to offer goods and services, in return for a compensation.

If it involves sex, and: 1) you're OK with it, 2) you're not getting exploited, 3) you're safe and not abused, then why not.

Beware though, that at some point in your future, you may have to disclose it and if you think it's going to be worth, regardless, then go for it.

Being a sugar daddy? Not for me. I don't think I would function well, in a relationship based entirely on a monetary exchange.

poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F

college is ridiculously expensive so honestly i’d do it, but only if my boyfriend was okay with it

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poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F

@CrustyDDingus hmmm is the birthday gift the start of you being my sugar daddy🤔

CrustyDDingus · 36-40, M

@poisonouscupcake Your birthday isn't until January 😒

poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F

@CrustyDDingus that gives you enough time to save up money for my winter semester🤪

SW-User

🤢

YukikoAmagi

[c=#359E00]i never had one when i was younger, so.. i don't know[/c]

Azrael2 · 22-25, T

@YukikoAmagi good for you though 🖤

YukikoAmagi

@Azrael2 😁

Mamapolo2016 · F

Check the price tag first. The sugarbaby's cost, not the sugardaddy's

SW-User

Nah, I don't just want "sugar" from a partner; that's so undignified. Though I recognize it would be hard for someone not to buy me stuff :P

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Azrael2 · 22-25, T

@SW-User ohh I see! Why do you think that is?

SW-User

@Azrael2 Well, I attract that type because I tend to be submissive and cutesy, to be perfectly honest. lol. But that's an image; ultimately I don't want to be with someone who just wants me to depend on them.

Azrael2 · 22-25, T

@SW-User Well, at least you know what you want! 🖤

SW-User

Hell yeah

SW-User

To each their own but personally I’m not giving my money away to someone who probably doesn’t give 2 shits about me.

Azrael2 · 22-25, T

@SW-User well, sugar relationships can be based on mutual care too 🤷 but yeah, I get your point 🖤

SW-User

None of my business how people spend their money.

Azrael2 · 22-25, T

@SW-User nice answer lol

SW-User

I mean do what makes you happy. Just remember no one owes you commitment and men too have standards. When you're older and opt to settle down (if you so choose) most men won't be down with a sugar baby history.