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Why are most unattractive men mean to average girls and looks for girls out of their league in terms of attractiveness?

Most of the unattractive men I meet have their heads in cloud and think they're too good for ordinary women. I mean it's good they have confidence but they don't have to be assholes about it.
JBird
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JBird 路 F
@nukosa I am engaged to another guy. Sorry 馃槅馃槅馃槅馃槅
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Kwek00 路 41-45, M
Why do a lot of attractive girls say "it's all about the person" but still actively look for attractive people? 馃

This isn't a thing that belongs to one gender... it's pretty common out there.
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Kwek00 路 41-45, M
@JBird 馃 ... don't you do the same thing? Isn't this something we all do? Isn't that the basis of having a preference?

Not sure about the shallow attitude. I think that's bias.
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JBird 路 F
@Kwek00 whatever it is, it's not fair action. Btw, I do 'biasing' on how people act not how they look
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Kwek00 路 41-45, M
@JBird Lol.. but if I'm right about you being bias (not saying that I'm right, but if I'm right) then that by default maybe considered "unfair" for the "unatractive guy" that isn't considered to have a "shallow" attitude

(and all these things, even the word "shallow" and "fair" have a really arbitrairy/subjective thing going on)
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indyjoe 路 56-60, M
I am not the most attractive handsome man...never have claimed to be. But I have always steered clear of most women who were "beautiful" or "gorgeous" and was always more attracted to the average, ordinary, everyday, even "plain" girls/women (as far back as I can remember)...they to me are the ones that have always been more beautiful and gorgeous.
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LeopoldBloom 路 M
Yes. This describes Incels perfectly. Ugly, stupid, boring men think they're entitled to a supermodel and complain when they can't attract one, but then they treat women in their league like crap.

That being said, women in general aren't exactly welcoming to ugly men.
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JBird 路 F
@LeopoldBloom kind of sad but yes. But I rarely see unattractive women complaining their man unattractive
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SW-User
The vast majority of people want to be with someone that they find attractive and they aim high even if they settle for lower. The same is true in most areas of life. We aim for the best that we can possibly get and aspire to even better.
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in10RjFox 路 M
Unfortunate that we are created that way .. where our face is not visible to our eyes but others' face.. so for each, their looks are an imagination.. so the guys project themselves as smart thinking thar they are as attractive as the one they are attracting..馃槀馃槀
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Gingerbreadspice 路 F
Men say that but most of them date women of equal looks to them. If you鈥檙e attractive or average is a matter of opinion.
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SW-User
I don't go for unattractive men so they are not my business
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eMortal 路 M
They should focus on unattractive girls, right!? Stay in their league!

I could ask you why average girls target well accomplished and attractive men? Can't those girls stay in their lane? 馃槀
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JBird 路 F
@eMortal sorry, if I offended you in any way but I am not asking them to stay in their lane. You didn't read my story. You can look attractive women but it doesn't mean you can be mean to normal or less attractive women.
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SW-User
idk man. idk.
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SW-User
O.0
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Ryannnnnn 路 31-35, M
I don't think that's sex specific behaviour/bit of a generalisation.
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JP1119 路 36-40, M
What do they do that鈥檚 mean?
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JBird 路 F
@JP1119 I will give you an example. There used to be a guy in my previous company. He's really ugly but he's a talker and bossy. And there's another hot girl and I was her mentor. Whenever I or any other person ask for help, he refuses. If it's her, he wouldn't have any problem. During reviews too, he critize people unnecessarily but he always have a soft corner for the girl even she didn't do anything. I overheard him suggesting her for a lead position even though she had no knowledge of what we are supposed to do. He did the same to other 'hot' girls in the office. I have seen similar cases in my college too. Even here, there was an ugly Indian guy who told me I can't have a decent guy because I am average
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