Why are most unattractive men mean to average girls and looks for girls out of their league in terms of attractiveness?

Most of the unattractive men I meet have their heads in cloud and think they're too good for ordinary women. I mean it's good they have confidence but they don't have to be assholes about it.

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Kwek00 · 41-45, M

Why do a lot of attractive girls say "it's all about the person" but still actively look for attractive people? 🤔

This isn't a thing that belongs to one gender... it's pretty common out there.

JBird · F

@Kwek00 I am talking about unattractive people here. Different subject

Kwek00 · 41-45, M

@JBird I think the biggest mistake is that you diffrenciate between "attractive" and "unattractive" (which are pretty arbitrairy by themselves) and then think that one group of people is totally diffrent then the other group of people... cause in the end, they are just people? 🤔

JBird · F

@Kwek00 I don't want to differentiate but I find myself being classified around unattractive to attractive by men all the time. I can't help noticing it's always the unattractive men who have rather shallow attitude towards finding a partner and treats women according to their looks.

Kwek00 · 41-45, M

@JBird 🤔 ... don't you do the same thing? Isn't this something we all do? Isn't that the basis of having a preference?

Not sure about the shallow attitude. I think that's bias.

JBird · F

@Kwek00 whatever it is, it's not fair action. Btw, I do 'biasing' on how people act not how they look

Kwek00 · 41-45, M

@JBird Lol.. but if I'm right about you being bias (not saying that I'm right, but if I'm right) then that by default maybe considered "unfair" for the "unatractive guy" that isn't considered to have a "shallow" attitude

(and all these things, even the word "shallow" and "fair" have a really arbitrairy/subjective thing going on)