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Are you vengeful when it comes to your ex?

Or have you moved on?
Turtlepower · 36-40, M
I've long moved on.
Paintedfox · 36-40, F
Never vengeful. My ex husband and I are chill. We have a son together and its not always easy but we stay buds for his sake.
SarahAndSamantha · 46-50, F
@Paintedfox As a child who went through the opposite, thank you.
Paintedfox · 36-40, F
@SarahAndSamantha 🙏 my parents were at each other's throats, then they both died, I will make sure he has a shot at healthy 🖤
SarahAndSamantha · 46-50, F
@Paintedfox I've known very few people in my life who divorced and didn't make it crap for the kids. So I always appreciate those who do it right
BlueVeins · 22-25
i was salty for a while but now i'm moving on 💖 you?
emilyhei · 26-30, F
@BlueVeins I wanted to make him jealous. He works at a club that puts on burlesque shows from time to time. I tried out and got to perform. He had to watch while I performed a strip tease and the men in the audience were watching me take my clothes off. lol
BlueVeins · 22-25
@emilyhei yikes, remind me to never break up with you
nowic2 · 61-69, M
Nope, being bitter makes it much harder to move on. No-one needs that. It's more likely to make them miserable.
I have moved on. Revenge isn't going to help anyone.
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
@NerdyPotato 100 % agree! 👍
Rusty6 · 61-69, M
Not vengeful but would liked to have had more after my divorce. Lost house and land and half my income from retirement. I. Ow get 563 dollars a month and have syltarted back to work part time just to make ends meet.
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
@Rusty6 I hear you. 😐
Rusty6 · 61-69, M
@Loretta78 thanks
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
I was never vengeful and never will be although my former husband has done indeed very bad things to me. But from the moment I´ve left him 21 years ago it didn´t matter to me anymore. I´ve moved on.
SilkandLace2 · 46-50, M
@Loretta78 so good for you dear!!
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
I'm never vengeful.
Pinkstarburst · 51-55, F
That takes way too much time and energy. I just moved on.
SW-User
@Pinkstarburst Right? Too much give a fuck needed for that
Pinkstarburst · 51-55, F
@SW-User Exactly
SW-User
@Pinkstarburst 🤗🤗🤗
Beetlejuice68 · 56-60, M
Nope, no point, doesn’t change who they are and reflects badly on you. Best to just move forward as difficult as that is initially.
Pfuzylogic · M
I am not vengeful, we had four children together. Yet I am not friends because the trust has dissipated.
SW-User
I just don't want to think about them but I don't want revenge
I don't give a rat's ass what he's up to...
SW-User
@HootyTheNightOwl I don't blame you
SW-User
I have moved on
Branchess · 26-30, F
I did feel badly towards my first love. I was very negative after that break up. It was a few years ago now. Water under the bridge.
SilkandLace2 · 46-50, M
I think I am, but, almost 15 years removed, she somehow thinks I still answer to her, she fuels any kind of vengeance.....
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HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F
I'm married now. I have no need to think about exes any more.
SarahAndSamantha · 46-50, F
Moved on. There are so many better things to be vengeful for
SweetMae · 70-79, F
I have moved on. I don't have time for that.
BigAssLeech · 31-35, M
I'm still friends with my ex
luckranger71 · 51-55, M
nope. Distant, but at peace with her.
SW-User
Never vengeful
Fairydust · F
No move on... let go 😊
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
Not at all.its all good
hillbilly · 26-30, M
I try not to be
Honestly, there’s no one with whom I parted adversarially.
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
I'm not the slightest bit angry. Turns out I dodged a bullet with her.
tenente · 100+, M
i used to but being angry and vengeful is exhausting and a waste of time - so now i just forgive and move on
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