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Are you vengeful when it comes to your ex?

Or have you moved on?
Turtlepower36-40, M
I've long moved on.
Paintedfox36-40, F
Never vengeful. My ex husband and I are chill. We have a son together and its not always easy but we stay buds for his sake.
SarahAndSamantha46-50, F
@Paintedfox As a child who went through the opposite, thank you.
Paintedfox36-40, F
@SarahAndSamantha 馃檹 my parents were at each other's throats, then they both died, I will make sure he has a shot at healthy 馃枻
SarahAndSamantha46-50, F
@Paintedfox I've known very few people in my life who divorced and didn't make it crap for the kids. So I always appreciate those who do it right
BlueVeins22-25
i was salty for a while but now i'm moving on 馃挅 you?
emilyhei26-30, F
@BlueVeins I wanted to make him jealous. He works at a club that puts on burlesque shows from time to time. I tried out and got to perform. He had to watch while I performed a strip tease and the men in the audience were watching me take my clothes off. lol
BlueVeins22-25
@emilyhei yikes, remind me to never break up with you
nowic261-69, M
Nope, being bitter makes it much harder to move on. No-one needs that. It's more likely to make them miserable.
NerdyPotatoM
I have moved on. Revenge isn't going to help anyone.
Loretta7846-50, F
@NerdyPotato 100 % agree! 馃憤
Rusty661-69, M
Not vengeful but would liked to have had more after my divorce. Lost house and land and half my income from retirement. I. Ow get 563 dollars a month and have syltarted back to work part time just to make ends meet.
Loretta7846-50, F
@Rusty6 I hear you. 馃槓
Rusty661-69, M
@Loretta78 thanks
Loretta7846-50, F
I was never vengeful and never will be although my former husband has done indeed very bad things to me. But from the moment I麓ve left him 21 years ago it didn麓t matter to me anymore. I麓ve moved on.
SilkandLace246-50, M
@Loretta78 so good for you dear!!
Dolimyte41-45, M
I'm never vengeful.
That takes way too much time and energy. I just moved on.
SW-User
@Pinkstarburst Right? Too much give a fuck needed for that
@SW-User Exactly
SW-User
@Pinkstarburst 馃馃馃
Beetlejuice6851-55, M
Nope, no point, doesn鈥檛 change who they are and reflects badly on you. Best to just move forward as difficult as that is initially.
PfuzylogicM
I am not vengeful, we had four children together. Yet I am not friends because the trust has dissipated.
SW-User
I just don't want to think about them but I don't want revenge
I don't give a rat's ass what he's up to...
SW-User
@HootyTheNightOwl I don't blame you
SW-User
I have moved on
Branchess26-30, F
I did feel badly towards my first love. I was very negative after that break up. It was a few years ago now. Water under the bridge.
SilkandLace246-50, M
I think I am, but, almost 15 years removed, she somehow thinks I still answer to her, she fuels any kind of vengeance.....
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HairbrushDiva31-35, F
I'm married now. I have no need to think about exes any more.
SarahAndSamantha46-50, F
Moved on. There are so many better things to be vengeful for
SweetMae70-79, F
I have moved on. I don't have time for that.
BigAssLeech31-35, M
I'm still friends with my ex
luckranger7151-55, M
nope. Distant, but at peace with her.
SW-User
Never vengeful
FairydustF
No move on... let go 馃槉
Eddiesolds61-69, M
Not at all.its all good
hillbilly26-30, M
I try not to be
Honestly, there鈥檚 no one with whom I parted adversarially.
I'm not the slightest bit angry. Turns out I dodged a bullet with her.
tenente100+, M
i used to but being angry and vengeful is exhausting and a waste of time - so now i just forgive and move on
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