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Is sending someone an incognito message, telling them about the feeling you have for them dumb?

I just don't have the guts to tell him face-to-face.😶
Isthisit · F
No its not dumb
SW-User
Don't do it incognito.
Why leave him wondering who it might be?
LucyFuhr · 56-60, F
Personally, I'd resent someone for giving me that kind of information without letting me know who it's coming from and/or what their intentions are.
WonderfulOne · 22-25, F
@LucyFuhr yeah I know. But what should I do?
LucyFuhr · 56-60, F
@WonderfulOne Tell them directly or keep it to yourself til you're ready to deal with it properly. It's not fair to put someone on "alert" for something that you might never follow through on...y'know what I mean?
indyjoe · 56-60, M
Back when I was coming up that was called a "secret admirer". Nothing wrong with it unless you never reveal yourself to them at all.
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
An incognito message ?

Be [b]BOLD[/b]. Be [b]BRAVE[/b]. Tell them straight !
WonderfulOne · 22-25, F
@Picklebobble2 but what if he dump me? We work together, I don't need that kind of things in my workplace.
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
@WonderfulOne You don't have to go all-out-Valentine ❣️💞💓 over them.
Just get chatting and if you feel the conversation is going well, ask them out for a cup of coffee and a chat after work.
SW-User
What do you mean by 'incognito'?🤔
WonderfulOne · 22-25, F
@SW-User there is this bot on Telegram messenger that someone could send a message to another person without them knowing who send it, only if the second person is a user of the bot. I just checked, he is a user.
SW-User
@WonderfulOne So, they would have to guess who the sender is!🤔
WonderfulOne · 22-25, F
@SW-User yeah, kinda. He can reply me btw.
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
no it is a start is what it is
WonderfulOne · 22-25, F
@Subsumedpat I didin't understand what you said😶
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
The inconito message is just a start then you will warm up to the face to face
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Rippie · 31-35, M
No it’s not dumb
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