say someone that hasn't spoken to you in years contracts you to see how are you, what do you think?
36-40, M
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SW-User
This just happened to me. My stepfather contacted me after not a word for years. He says he misses me terribly and has been so worried about me. 🙄 Sure he does/has.
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AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
@hunkalove you kept in contact though?
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
@Bubbles guess I'm to pessimistic then :/
Bubbles · 36-40, F
@AllelujahHaptism I don't think there is anything wrong with being guarded about it, but maybe they just miss your friendship and were wanting to reconnect
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
@Bubbles so randomly though after 5ish years maybe?
SW-User
I’ve done the same. I think they were probably going through old photos/letters/texts/emails or catching up with someone else who might have mentioned me during conversation.
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
@SW-User seems random though
SW-User
@AllelujahHaptism Yeah, but a lot of things can trigger a person’s memory.
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
@SW-User yeah I guess you're right
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
@DarlingSelah yeah maybe
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
My high school boyfriend did and we ended up dating for many years.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@AllelujahHaptism in a way but we started all over. He ghosted me after 4 years. Now tries to contact me often. I'm over it and ignore him
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
@Fungirlmmm sounds like it got complicated?
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@AllelujahHaptism He has PTSD. So very complicated and I have moved on happily.
SW-User
Probably want something or are lonelyyy
SW-User
@SirEldridge Yaoi?😯
SW-User
@AllelujahHaptism Money, someone to talk to until their done with you(usually what happens)
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F
Creepy
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
@Butterflykisses24 I just don't know
Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F
@AllelujahHaptism just be careful.
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
@Butterflykisses24 yeah I'll have to be, thanks
Endlesstime89 · 31-35, F
Lol not amused.
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
@Endlesstime89 I don't know what to think :/
Endlesstime89 · 31-35, F
@AllelujahHaptism Just think why they need to contact you for? Trust your instincts, good luck. I'm leaving.
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
@Endlesstime89 thanks
Contracts me for what ?
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
@Underconstruction just wanted to talk & see how you are....
@AllelujahHaptism You wrote "contracts"
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
@Underconstruction oh..... Typo sorry
SW-User
Wonder why their other friends dumped them
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
@SW-User maybe they haven't?
StokedFox · 36-40, F
I'd be kind, but I dunno if I'd get close.
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
@StokedFox yeah I kinda thought that but it seems too random
Depends on who they are
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
@SStarfish semi intimate friend from years back
@AllelujahHaptism its up to them how they feel about it
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
Just be friendly and catch up
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
@smileylovesgaming you don't think there's more to it?
I dont think anything I just ignore them
NickiHijab · F
That’d depend on who the person was.
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
@NickiHijab someone you were semi intimate with
AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
What a hypocrite.
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
@AnonymousJSS what?