My boss\ friend is pregnant and having an abortion

I always assume that it's still better than having a kid when you don't actually want one. Some parents ruin the lives of their kids and scar them forever when they didn't want any to begin with.
I can also understand why adoption seems very weird too. Everyone in your environment is going to know you had a kid if you carried it. And knowing you have a kid and you gave it to someone else, I don't think I could do that either.

That being said, I still think it's quite irresponsible to get pregnant when you're not planning on having a kid. These days, there should be ways enough to prevent one.

I am personally not for abortions, but it is not of any of my business what other people do. I respect your thoughts but you can't judge her. She made a decision based on her life not yours. Be respectful and move on. We don<t have to agree with our friends but we must respect them and their choices.

Stop judging her perhaps

It's none of your business. Keep your comments to yourself and do your job with professionalism.

"She already feels like I'm secretly judging her".....you are judging her!that being said, you can't help the way you feel about it, her being your boss makes things a bit more difficult to discuss. My thought and beliefs are just that, mine...not everyone has the same views, understanding will go a long way...doesn't mean you have to agree. I'm sure the decision wasn't one easily made and your friend might need your support.

It's hard to know what someone is going through to make a tough decision like that. I imagine it's not easy to kill your own baby.

Try to keep that in mind, often their circumstances and struggles that have very sad and tragic consequences like that. Keep that in mind when you judge her for her decision.

You don't know someone's reasoning or struggle until you are in that position

What's her reason? I get how you feel. I'm against using abortion as a form of birth control. I've seen it used that way too much. There are preventative measure that do work.

I feel like id be doing the same if i were in ur position ;__; id try to stop judging and understand why she did what she did

I agree with you 👍 There are so many women who wish to have babies, but they can't. Then you have these women who get pregnant, and toss their fetus away like it's yesterday's trash! Why can't they look into adoption? Give to women who can't have babies, besides the fetus is a living being! Even though some people think it's just a little blob! No its not! I'm sorry but I think abortion is plain Murder!!!

Abortion is a heavy decision, but the truth is we have no idea who that child would have grown up to be. Coulda been the next Hitler for all we know. Doesn't mean as a society we should embrace abortion, but we don't have to act like every fetus is perfect human being either. Situation dictates.

Why not put it up for adoption?

Well that'd be because you ARE secretly judging her. How do you stop that? idk, maybe keep telling yourself 'Its not my business' and 'Its up to her' (this might sound sarcastic but I mean it seriously, keep drilling this stuff to yourself and it will shift your attitudes.

These things are the coalface Of life

You have to have freedom of your own conscience and she hers

It could be difficult for a friendship
But if she’s important to you try to support her in your way, if you can

It is her choice and not yours and you have to look at it that way and not judge her... Do you think she would judge you if the situation were reversed ?

Shes gotta already know shes gonna be judge by being so open about it. And as long as you're not judgemental to her I'm sure she'll be fine with the looks.

i'm not thinking about the pregnant person's rights,i'm concearned about the unborn's rights,,,,

Doesn’t sound like you can. Not without changing your mind or accepting it.

People judge ,she just has to accept it as do you and move on

You can't.