I need advice about boys.

Guys are pretty easy... just be yourself and don't try so hard to please them. For me, being yourself and all that entails makes a difference. Also, ask for what you want - HE: How about pizza tonight? She: Hmm, how about Greek instead.

How is usually goes: He: how about pizza tonight? She: I don't care (internally, NOT PIZZA AGAIN! He should know that I am bored of pizza.. I have him lots of hints. And even mentioned that new Greek restaurant a few days ago...)


Dress how you want to. Just know that something tight and slinky, while very cute and quite sexy, is often "very sexy a..and booty! BOOBS" to guys. Not saying you need to think about it, but know that kind of reaction you might get. He should still be a gentlemen regardless of what you wear... Just saying.

Lastly, don't do hints if you can help it. Just sucks... Speak your mind. Answer questions directly. Guys love confidence as much as girls love confidence in guys.

Lastly, don't judge books by covers. (Works for girl to guy, the reverse is also true.) That said, never go out with a guy who won't dress up for you. (if appropriate for the date) Heels suck on a grass lawn concert, kinda thing - don't care who's playing.


Jeesh, shut up soogles: Lastly, dating is like trying on jeans. Sometimes you have to try on a few pairs. Just be open and honest about it. If it doesn't feel very deep or touches you hear much, the relationship is just dating.. :)

Sucks, but good luck!

I think justanotherguyonhere nailed it. Theres no rush, and no pressure. Date on your own terms. Its fine, great even that you want somebody special. Be patient, you will find somebody.

Well sounds like you're afraid of letting things not be perfect...

Sadly in life nothing is perfect, sadly you will screw up, sadly some guy will probably break you heart at some point.... but you have to remember, it's not just you, this kind of things happens to all of us.


Think of the best relationship or marriage you know about... I can promise you that they made mistakes at some point too.


It's not about what happens in life, it's about how you move forward from them happening, and how you react to when things are perfect and how you react when things aren't perfect.

relax - take it easy - when YOU are ready you will know it.
Don't pressure yourself so much !

My mother didn't tell me about boys either
I dated because I felt attracted and liked them
Meeting someone on an app probably doesn't involve this

But anyway it's normal to feel nervous
Face your fear and meet them (make sure to stay safe). It doesn't matter if it's awkward at first, and you might just have fun!
Good luck☺

Alcohol helps

Instead of ghosting them, just go meet up and be disappointed a few times. After a while you build up an immunity.

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