I need advice about boys.

Moments like this, I wish I had an older sister to talk to. I'm 21 never been kissed never been on a date. I've been on a few dating apps. I talk to guys, in fact a lot of guys on these apps but only a few have really stood out. Every time it gets to the point of meeting, I chicken out and block them from all communication. I know it's because I'm scared. Scared because I don't have a lot of experience. scared I'll get my heart broken. I guess the main thing is... I don't understand why it's so hard to date. I'm scared I'm going to do or say the wrong thing. I didn't grow up with a mom who would tell me about boys or give me advice. We are just not close like that. It's just so frustrating because I sometimes just still feel like I'm a shy, scared 15 year old girl. I guess I just want my first kiss to be special with someone I love and who loves me. I'm just terrible at this dating thing. I just don't know how to let someone get to know me.

Viper · M

Well sounds like you're afraid of letting things not be perfect...

Sadly in life nothing is perfect, sadly you will screw up, sadly some guy will probably break you heart at some point.... but you have to remember, it's not just you, this kind of things happens to all of us.

Think of the best relationship or marriage you know about... I can promise you that they made mistakes at some point too.

It's not about what happens in life, it's about how you move forward from them happening, and how you react to when things are perfect and how you react when things aren't perfect.