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I Believe Friendship Is A Two Way Street

I don't admire any woman that does not initiate conversation. If a man has to constantly initiate every conversation...even in just a friendship role, then why the hell bother? She doesn't deserve his companionship

In this day and age women should speak for themselves and openly pursue social interaction with both women and men, yet so many women are unwilling or unable to actively communicate with men. As a man, I can say we dont appreciate when our social interest in a woman is not returned.

Women need to know that they are not the center of the universe to which all men should cling. If you want a healthy friendly relationship you have to work at it, initiate interaction, and sometimes even be a little aggressive

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NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F

Alot of women have seen enough of the world to become introverted. Others were raised with old fasioned morales that dictate that a proper lady does not speak to just any men that happen to pass by. Hard to break roots.

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NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F

@Sebastianblack that is why youll never have someone eager to see you.

Sebastianblack · 36-40, M

@NeuroticByNature Oh is that why?Geez So nice of you to tell me seeing as how you know me so well. You must know everything about me. Guess what? you don't know a damn thing, but you are arrogant in presuming you do. Only a fool would be so arrogant. FYI, I have had plenty of relationships with Women all of which I have chosen to end abruptly because of their misgivings. You have not a single clue in your empty head.

NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F

@Sebastianblack hmm ok thanks

RubySoo · 56-60, F

I agree....in the reverse!! This post is totally interchangeable. Men/women.

Altho.....in my opinion
...women are usually more open to conversation than men.

Sebastianblack · 36-40, M

@RubySoo Of course you would think the reverse, you are a woman after all.

GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

Those keeping score of who said hi first you will always be lonely.

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Sebastianblack · 36-40, M

@GJOFJ3 Spoken like a true Jackass

GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

@Sebastianblack you are no doubt referring to your post here. In that case I agree.
Hehehe

JerseyGal · 51-55, F

Maybe the social interest is not returned in the way some feel it should be because, simply put, they're not interested.
Women also do not like being the one who always has to initiate conversation all the time.
Besides, any relationship, whether it is friends or more, should not be based on who initiates the conversation. If every person went through life this way, no one would have anyone to talk to. They'd all be waiting for the other person to talk first.

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Sebastianblack · 36-40, M

@JerseyGal I know EXACTLY what women don't like. I have spent a good long 36 years learning exactly how many complaints women have and I am damn sick of it.

JerseyGal · 51-55, F

@Sebastianblack Funny you view it as one sided. Not a problem. I don't care to stay where anyone has to be rude. Take care!

Sebastianblack · 36-40, M

@JerseyGal rude people deserve to be treated rudely. Don't say "take care" because God and everyone else knows you don't mean it.

djcam · M

This goes both ways.

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