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I Believe Friendship Is A Two Way Street

I don't admire any woman that does not initiate conversation. If a man has to constantly initiate every conversation...even in just a friendship role, then why the hell bother? She doesn't deserve his companionship

In this day and age women should speak for themselves and openly pursue social interaction with both women and men, yet so many women are unwilling or unable to actively communicate with men. As a man, I can say we dont appreciate when our social interest in a woman is not returned.

Women need to know that they are not the center of the universe to which all men should cling. If you want a healthy friendly relationship you have to work at it, initiate interaction, and sometimes even be a little aggressive
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NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F
Alot of women have seen enough of the world to become introverted. Others were raised with old fasioned morales that dictate that a proper lady does not speak to just any men that happen to pass by. Hard to break roots.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I have to agree...I’m not one to text first because I don’t want to harass and I don’t know how I will be perceived.it takes a while for me to feel comfortable and the person knows I’m not trying to bother them.@NeuroticByNature
NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F
@Keepitsimple im like that with all people men and women. I feel like im a bother if I call just to talk or message just to say nothing.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@NeuroticByNature me too! :)
Sebastianblack · 36-40, M
@Keepitsimple Your being perceived as pathetic, meek, skittish and completely insignificant.
Sebastianblack · 36-40, M
@NeuroticByNature That is the most sad, pathetic, and cowardly notion I have ever encountered.
NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F
@Sebastianblack that is why youll never have someone eager to see you.
Sebastianblack · 36-40, M
@NeuroticByNature Oh is that why?Geez So nice of you to tell me seeing as how you know me so well. You must know everything about me. Guess what? you don't know a damn thing, but you are arrogant in presuming you do. Only a fool would be so arrogant. FYI, I have had plenty of relationships with Women all of which I have chosen to end abruptly because of their misgivings. You have not a single clue in your empty head.
NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F
@Sebastianblack hmm ok thanks