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I Believe Friendship Is A Two Way Street

I don't admire any woman that does not initiate conversation. If a man has to constantly initiate every conversation...even in just a friendship role, then why the hell bother? She doesn't deserve his companionship

In this day and age women should speak for themselves and openly pursue social interaction with both women and men, yet so many women are unwilling or unable to actively communicate with men. As a man, I can say we dont appreciate when our social interest in a woman is not returned.

Women need to know that they are not the center of the universe to which all men should cling. If you want a healthy friendly relationship you have to work at it, initiate interaction, and sometimes even be a little aggressive
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JerseyGal · 51-55, F
Maybe the social interest is not returned in the way some feel it should be because, simply put, they're not interested.
Women also do not like being the one who always has to initiate conversation all the time.
Besides, any relationship, whether it is friends or more, should not be based on who initiates the conversation. If every person went through life this way, no one would have anyone to talk to. They'd all be waiting for the other person to talk first.
Sebastianblack · 36-40, M
@JerseyGal Exactly, and you should read your own words more carefully and reflect inwards.
JerseyGal · 51-55, F
@Sebastianblack Thank you for the suggestion. But, I'm good with what I wrote. No need for me to read more carefully.
Sebastianblack · 36-40, M
@JerseyGal then get the hell off my post with your 1 sided point of view.
Sebastianblack · 36-40, M
@JerseyGal I dont appreciate your under handed remarks and snide personality.
Sebastianblack · 36-40, M
@JerseyGal I know EXACTLY what women don't like. I have spent a good long 36 years learning exactly how many complaints women have and I am damn sick of it.
JerseyGal · 51-55, F
@Sebastianblack Funny you view it as one sided. Not a problem. I don't care to stay where anyone has to be rude. Take care!
Sebastianblack · 36-40, M
@JerseyGal rude people deserve to be treated rudely. Don't say "take care" because God and everyone else knows you don't mean it.