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Do you feel like religious people are unfairly judged? [Spirituality & Religion]

Many times, people put them all in the same category, based on what they see, hear, or experience. Not all are the same, though. I consider myself religious, but I don't think that I am better than anyone or that I know everything there is to know about the universe and we were created, if you get what I am saying. I hope we can keep this civil 🤷🏻‍♀️.
Speedyman · 70-79, M
Jesus was crucified.
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@BitterSweetPotato Didn't you just say goodnight? Just can't help yourself, huh? 😂
BitterSweetPotato · 31-35, F
@latinbutterfly I couldn’t sleep, out of the excitement! I had a lot of fun here tonight 😌
Elessar · 26-30, M
I think that historically and even up to these days, it's the religious people those who unfairly judge others the most, usually on the base of their own doctrine that doesn't necessarily have to be shared by everyone.

I haven't seen records of non-religious people burning alive or torturing to death religious people, after accusing them of heresy, just because they didn't share their view, for instance. I don't get how the very same religions that were allowed to do that for centuries haven't been disbanded as of yet (let alone those that still do), when such practices are universally recognized as criminal, both by their believers and all the others. Above all, I don't get how some institution can still have some credibility for most. Or its followers, complain because they receive (usually constructive) criticism.
@Elessar Well, if you go back through history, you will find that Christians were persecuted by the Romans at one point:

[quote]Although it is often claimed that Christians were persecuted for their refusal to worship the emperor, general dislike for Christians likely arose from their refusal to worship the gods or take part in sacrifice, which was expected of those living in the Roman Empire.[/quote]

[quote]Christians were first - and horribly - persecuted by the emperor Nero . Christians were first, and horribly, targeted for persecution as a group by the emperor Nero in 64 AD. A colossal fire broke out at Rome, and destroyed much of the city.[/quote]
Elessar · 26-30, M
@latinbutterfly Good point. I think they were seen as extremists, and as such treated no different than any other treat to the stability and order of society back then. An approach that repeated countless times in history, even as of recently, especially in regimes. However, we're comparing something that happened locally and sporadically within circa two centuries (I suppose, only after they were thought to have caused some uprest, like in the case of the 64 a.D. fire they were presumed to have started), which ended with ceasing the prosecution, legalizing their religion and even them being recognized as the official religion of the Empire - over something that happened systematically, over the course of almost two millennia, purely for doctrinal reasons, even against people who identified as believers no less.

Also, information we have from back then is heavily revised by almost two millennia of Christian dominance, so I don't know how much of that can be trusted and taken as irrefutable. A lot of Roman literature has survived up to these days thanks to rewritings operated by monks, who could have potentially altered them in the process.
Sharon · F
@latinbutterfly [quote]you will find that Christians were persecuted by the Romans at one point:[/quote]
Not quite, the Romans only took action against the rabble rousing christians attempting to cause dessension.
I think there are more judgmental followers than not.

Religion is based around a way of life, a set of “rules” if you must... and it seems to me that grants them a sense of righteousness to judge others who choose to not follow along.

But it’s all the same I guess, considering those religious can’t seem to follow undoubtedly either.

I believe in a higher being. But I prefer to do my own thing.
@LadyGrace Hell is in our minds. People who know that are not afraid of death.
@Elevatorpitches Hell is a very real place, described in detail in the bible. If you don't believe that, that's up to you, but I believe God's Word.
@LadyGrace "God" tells me I'm ok what what I know and also ok with what I still have to learn.

OK?

Judge not lest YOU be judged.
BlueVeins · 22-25
I think the moderates are sometimes unfairly judged. Like, I don't really take issue with people who worship God because it helps them process stuff going on in their lives and makes them feel better. Because you know what? Sometimes, you just need a little boost and religion just provides that for some people. But the people who think the Resurrection or Exodus are part of objective reality or get worked up about LGBTQ stuff, witchcraft, secularism, and swearing are 🤡s who totally deserve to get mocked.
BitterSweetPotato · 31-35, F
I think it goes both ways.. Non religious people are also often put in the category of having no morals or ethical standards, just because they don't abide by religious rules. People make assumptions about everyone.
Abstraction · 61-69, M
@BitterSweetPotato Agree wholeheartedly. Religious people can be incredibly small-minded and judgemental. As a christian I'm constantly dismayed watching it.
SweetMae · 70-79, F
Many people are unfairly judged for many reasons.
JoePourMan · 61-69, M
@SweetMae Wow, that was so shallow of him.
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@JoePourMan It was his loss.
JoePourMan · 61-69, M
@SweetMae Very true
Miram · 31-35, F
There is only one judgmental person in this post and they are religious. That says enough.
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@Miram So true. 😂 Who comes out with the judgment attitude? The usual suspects.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
Yes and no. It's... complicated.

On one hand, religious forces are extremely powerful in many parts of the world and can cause great misery to those who do not step in line.

On the other hand, individuals practising their own religious beliefs without harming anyone can get a lot of shit for it and should be treated with the compassion and kindness due anyone.

The question is always who is in power, and who is not, and who is being harmed in some kind of social tension.
Miram · 31-35, F
@CountScrofula

There is no excuse to support terrorist acts anywhere. People have influence because others support them.

Nothing tricky about understanding that killing civilians is wrong, even as someone who suffered the consequences of wars waged by the west. It is very simple and should be a universal moral

Hamas even killed their own people when they were Fath supporters. It is not fine to think all their acts are right just because they are hiding behind a cause.

Lot of Palestinians in Gaza don't support them anymore. They are corrupted and violent.

What is dangerous about supporting terrorists acts without joining in? They exist because of the normalization. When you raise your children to believe it is okay to kill civilians, simply because you think you are victim, you are just raising a future terrorist. It is yours, you made him/her.

There isn't a single terrorist out there who doesn't think themselves a hero getting justice, does not mean they are. They are just savages with an agenda and shouldn't be glorified.

And when it comes to Saudi Arabia, it is not just the west that supports it, most Islamic countries do and have including the population. Their second generating source of money is Islamic tourism. Every year millions of Muslims go to Saudi and spend billions. It is 20 percent of their GDP.

The wealth of Muslims world wide is being used to butcher Muslims.

This is the only part I agree with [quote] individuals practising their own religious beliefs without harming anyone can get a lot of shit for it and should be treated with the compassion and kindness due anyone.[/quote]
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
@Miram You're really putting a lot of words in my mouth here and jumping to some ludicrous conclusions.

I'm not defending Hamas. I am not saying that only western nations support Saudi Arabia. I am not fucking [i]glorifying terrorism[/i]. You're so eager to start pigeonholing me as some guilty liberal trying to claim that all anti-Muslim sentiment is racist, and I'm trying to make a different point from that.

What I am saying here is that I am tolerant of religious beliefs because I think it is basic humanity to show respect to people trying to live their life in the way they think is just. Generally, these are not people with power who can actually cause great harm in their lives. And if they happen to sympathize with one side in a great cycle of violence (such as with Israel/Palestine) then I may disagree but I get it too.

My comment on terrorism is because the word does a great deal of legwork to just say "bad guy" in broad strokes, and I think reality is more complicated than that. Hamas are obviously terrorists, but the reason they exist in the first place is worth interrogating. Hell, the Turkish government decries the DUP in Rojava as terrorists, and they're an anarchist-feminist movement that refuse to execute even ISIS prisoners.

And importantly - I'm a white man from a Christian background. I'm an atheist, but I do not have the upbringing or education in Islam to comment too much on it. Anti-Islamic sentiment among white people is really just knuckle-dragging racism for the most part of people making broad statements about a gigantic religion they do not understand.

Also in Canada, it's not like Islam is some sort of nascent political force ready to take over. Christianity is dominant here, and Christian norms and Christian ways of doing harm to people are of FAR greater concern.

My ire and my energy is devoted at [b]those in power[/b], and yes - religious beliefs when in a position of power can cause unbelievable human suffering.

I can, at the same time, respect someone's religious beliefs while also recognizing how dangerous those beliefs would be if I was subjected to them involuntarily.
Miram · 31-35, F
@CountScrofula

[quote]I'm not defending Hamas...I am not glorifying terrorism[/quote]

I know. I wasn't saying you are defending Hamas or glorifying it. I was responding to the example you made of a Muslim family supporting Hamas to make the point that it is a complicated issue. There are lot of people in the west who support Hamas and I was addressing it.

Understanding and learning about Islam is possible for everyone. It is not an impossible task seeing that in Islam everyone is expected to join the religion.

I do agree that there are racists who attack Muslims but I also think that shouldn't stop people from caring about the minorities who are negatively affected by the religion, everywhere not just in Islamic countries. Social problems are just as relevant, they don't have to make it to the political arena.

I apologize if my comment was offensive, it wasn't my intention to make you or anyone else think you are the one in support of Hamas. ❤️
Nika2002 · 22-25, F
I feel comfortable with lumping them all together. If they think magic explains creation and provides salvation they're being unreasonable. Religion of millions or religion of one. It makes no difference to me.
Nika2002 · 22-25, F
@Speedyman You like to attack, blather, go totally off topic, and accuse others of your shortcomings. If you had honestly said that you feel more comfortable with fantasizing I could respect that. You're the most ridiculous person on all of SW.
Nika2002 · 22-25, F
@DecafD Everyone can believe as they want. I have no issue with that.
Speedyman · 70-79, M
@Nika2002 well as you don’t know what you’re talking about, calling other people ridiculous it’s a bit ridiculous. Your problem is people like you go on about things you know nothing about and will not be corrected by anybody then get offended when somebody tries to tell you😊
Harriet03 · 41-45, F
"Religous" people do enough judging for everybody!! 🤷‍♀️
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
No, I don't think people are judged unfairly.. .well ok by that I mean I don't judge religious people unfairly, or not all of them! There are some lovely religious people.. and they are fine - but I cannot stand the bigoted kind who use their religion to belittle and judge and discriminate against others.
I feel the same as you, except on one point. I do not define myself as religious. That is, I define that word with the idea that anyone can be religious, but that doesn't mean they have a personal relationship with Jesus. To me, there's a big difference, as even Satan believes, but he's not going to heaven. Thank you for this post.
@LadyGrace That is very true. That actually does make me think of myself differently, now. Thank you for responding ❤️.
@latinbutterfly ❤️🤗
@LadyGrace 🤗
I apologize for this on your post. I should have disengaged the moment things turned, which I usually do. These things don't deserve our attention. I'm sorry. ❤️🤗
@BitterSweetPotato Are you being serious or sarcastic? 🧐🤔
BitterSweetPotato · 31-35, F
@latinbutterfly What do you think?
@latinbutterfly Obviously sarcastic.
missionfigdeluxe · 61-69, M
Well, people that allow themselves to be controlled by fanatics that have manipulated a book of stories for population behavior control, I stay away from. Mass gullibility
Yes, even if you're not terribly religious but have a faith you're still branded as religious
@Tinkles but then they are religious, aren't they?
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
@Tinkles if it's religious faith, I think that's valid
It's a real shame when people can't carry on a decent conversation without someone trying to bully, insult, or criticize, which speaks volumes about their own immaturity and insecurities, over their victims. Trolls. Sad.
@LadyGrace I don't get why some people can't just respectfully disagree 🤷🏻‍♀️. I guess some aren't mature enough to do that.
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BitterSweetPotato · 31-35, F
@EarthlingWise Well stay tuned! 😃 I expect to see more changes and perhaps a new branch of Islam being born gradually until people are prepared to dump it altogether and stop lying to themselves.
@BitterSweetPotato In the West, for many families, with every generation religion became more of a set of social rites, until people thought of other rites.
BitterSweetPotato · 31-35, F
@EarthlingWise I was actually going to add this to my previous comment. That perhaps Islam is going through the same phases Christianity went through. That with time people will take it less seriously. I don't think we are THAT close to this happening though.. I may not even see it in my lifetime.. but I can say that definitely there are changes happening, and a good portion of the younger generation is detaching from religion gradually.
JBird · F
I am atheist but people still judge me based on the religion I was born to. And most of the time, it's the religious people from other faith who do that. 🤷 Of course, I am also judged for leaving the religion.
JBird · F
@EarthlingWise nope, already politics made sure of that. 😬
@JBird ☹️
@JBird I am sorry to hear that 🤷🏻‍♀️.
I think many people are actually able to see the different shades of things.
Absolutely. So many idiots out there trying to crack jokes about what you believe in like it’s this hilarious game to them. You even have people of similar faith that will blatantly make rude comments about how stupid they believe your religious beliefs to be. People forget that we’re allowed to be whatever we choose to be and just because someone doesn’t like it or disagrees does not give them the right to judge you about it.
@Emosaur I’m not specifically talking about the earth being round. I’m talking about being disrespectful to someone’s beliefs whether that be their belief in God or another higher power, their belief in what the afterlife is, how they absolve their sins, etc. You are differentiating between science and religion. I’m speaking of “beliefs”....based on “faith” and not fact and science. What I’m trying to stress here is that there’s a line that’s drawn when someone starts openly disrespecting an individual (targeting if you will) for their religious beliefs. It’s religious harassment.
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@Emosaur exactly and that’s what I mean. You don’t hate them for believing in something different and you don’t cross the lines into harassment unless someone is confronting you as well. I agree with you. I believe if someone says that beating their wife is part of their religion, then 1. This isn’t religion and 2. I do have a problem with this. Your answer is exactly what I was looking for. That people have enough respect and decency to not hate or pick on someone for their religious beliefs just because or for the mere sport of it. The line that’s cross is when a religious belief becomes conflicting or harmful. Thanks for entertaining me so long on this. I was in no way trying to attack your criticisms, but more so trying to understand you. You, of course are allowed to say whatever you want on a public site. I was merely interested in your train of thought.
Lostpoet · M
I think doing the right thing is hard af and the people that are able to do it should be appreciated.
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
@Lostpoet like in an audable voice?
Lostpoet · M
@Dolimyte No, a feeling
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
@Lostpoet that's different from your conscience?
I would have to say they are. The problem is that at least in the US, Christians are represented by some of the most vicious, bigoted, ignorant, and arrogant people in the country. These are a minority but they grab all the attention.
I think it's time we just ignored the troll. She's obviously starving for attention.
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One word. DELETE! 😂😂😂
@LadyGrace This post is too good now to get rid of it! 😂
@latinbutterfly 😂😂😂 No doubt!!! 😂😂
SW-User
I think most religious people do think they are better. And so do atheists. Everyone thinks they are living the life that everyone else should be living--that's naturally a kind of arrogance.
@SW-User No, really. But experience has taught me over and over again that discussion is actually not possible with most people calling themselves believers. And worse still, even basic respect and courtesy is hard to be found.
@SW-User [quote]I think if you claim to know, you are by default not using reason.[/quote]

Then that means if you [i]know[/i] the chair you are about to sit on, is perfectly sturdy because you built it, you're not using reason?? This is why we have God's Word. In 1 John 5:13, Jesus said, "I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God, [u]that you may know[/u] that you have eternal life." He didn't leave us to guess. But again....that's up to the individual whether they accept that or not. Faith is not guessing. It's RESTING in Him, as He works on our behalf. Talking to God is like talking to a friend on the telephone.... we may not see Him on the other end, but we know He's listening, because we see thecredultscof answered prayer, not coincidence, and He's never "too busy" to take our call. God honors a believing heart, and when we have faith, it allows Jesus to work miracles in our lives. He saved my daughter from dying, when the doctor gave up on her. She had even made funeral arrangements. Prayer works.
Sharon · F
@SW-User [quote]One can say we can't know if something that only exists on a metaphysical plane not detectable by the empiricism of the senses and still believe in it, [/quote]
If it's undetectable, it cannot have any effect on us so whether or not it exists make absolutely no difference.
Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M
I'm not really religious but I don't like it when people always complain about people who are like they're stupid.
SW-User
Nope. I think they are ones who unfairly judge others.
ladycae · 100+, F
i feel we are. just tonight I've read 2 death wishes for Christians. there are long threads insulting Christians every day
ladycae · 100+, F
@LadyGrace i am much better thanks. i am out of the covid isolation wing. i have a lot more energy, not as depressed or anxious. have not been retested though.
@ladycae Oh honey!!!! I've been praying for you!! I'm soooooo happy to hear that. You're a strong women, but then you have a mighty God on your side. 👆️👍️
ladycae · 100+, F
@LadyGrace amen lady grace. please pray for my pastor who has been in the icu since march with COVID related respiratory issues. he is a wonderful, strong man of God and should God choose to take him home my church will need the grace to accept God's will. Thanks for your prayers for me. He was surely with me.
[c=#359E00]this post will harvest hate to religious people[/c]
@EarthlingWise [c=#359E00]not really, some people speak because they understand. Anyway.. i got enough of this, i leave now[/c]
@YukikoAmagi You're welcome.
Sharon · F
@EarthlingWise [quote]Most atheists know a lot about religions.[/quote]
That's often why they're Atheists.
Abstraction · 61-69, M
Yes. Stereotyped. It sometimes comes from anger or ignorant arrogance, and - as with all dehumanisations - is small-minded and dismissive. There is light and shade and nuance, as with all things.
@Abstraction very intelligent answer
Roadsterrider · 56-60, M
Yes, it seems like if people know you are a Christian, you should be perfect. If you have a fault, you are labeled a hypocrite. It is assumed that you should be ready to write a check for anyone in need of something. Be ready to sacrifice yourself for someone else at a moments notice. Then there are always those who don't believe trying to explain why you can't be a Christian because you don't do this or that.
@Roadsterrider Yet that shouldn't stop us from being a Christian. That's just the way the world is, and how Jesus was treated, as well. He warned us about this. They will think what they think, regardless. That doesn't affect our relationship with God, and never will. We'll still remain faithful to the end.
Roadsterrider · 56-60, M
@LadyGrace I agree, just comparing what the non-believing world expects from someone who professes a belief in Christianity. Their opinion doesn't have anything to do with my belief or faith.
@Roadsterrider Yes...I believe that about you. I understand where you were coming from. That's good.
I try not to assume anything about them, but I’ve witnessed a lifetime of unfair judgment from people based upon their various religious beliefs.
@bijouxbroussard Unfortunately it happens way too often in the church. a church should be at least one place where someone can go and feel at home to be open about things. Humans are humans though, matter where you go. Judgmental, hypocritical, just plain rude.
SW-User
I have zero problem with religion, but I think religion is private and individual.

If we just focus on Christianity for a second, read Matthew 6:4 and tell me why mega churches exist. Tell me how Rome exists.

The human brain was developed in such a way (by God) that no single religion can exist. Each snowflake brain will have its own flavor (and that’s ok).
SW-User
Well this sure escalated quickly 🤔. To answer your question though, I feel like religious people are held to a higher standard in society than non religious. Religious people are expected to talk, look, and act a certain way.
SW-User
@SW-User They hold [i]themselves[/i] to that standard.
@SW-User All because of one single person, can you believe it? 😂 And yes, I definitely agree with you on that.
SubstantialKick · 31-35, M
I feel like it goes both ways.
Driver2 · M
Yes especially these days.
As someone else said the moderates can be unfairly judged. After all an extremist/terrorist is religious as well. And people will judge based on the extremes.
@canusernamebemyusername Exactly. One incident where an extremist goes nuts and commits a heinous act, can give the entire group a bad reputation.
One good reason why people shouldn't argue about religion here.
@Elevatorpitches No. They shouldn't. They should be able to discuss things in a mature manner, but some don't follow the rules.
@LadyGrace SW is the place for people who can't follow the rules..or won't.

I would have been kicked off every other forum by now.
@Elevatorpitches Hahaha. Well, some do follow them, and thus the reason for the listing of them, but as you mentioned, some won't. Such is life. ☺️
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Indy74 · 46-50, F
I totally understand what you are saying. I agree with you 100%!!👍️🤗
@Indy74 Thank you, my friend 🤗.
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
By some people on certain issues, of course. All the time? No
SW-User
Some yes, some no, Just like any other person.
ABCDEF7 · M
Simply because they believe.
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ladycae · 100+, F
@Emosaurlet it go emo.life is too short to get so bent out of shape over some thing so paltry and insignificant. besides no likes grammar nazi's
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ladycae · 100+, F
@Emosaur i.ve never been much into labels because i think they tend to be decisive. except for lesbian/gay which i love and am very proud of. but you may be right about being a diet rather than a theist.
Justenjoyit · 56-60, M
I dont judge region, whatever makes your life a bit easier is up to you.

 
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