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XXbc7 路 22-25, M
Hmm, for me it definitely has to be earned
Degbeme 路 70-79, M
[b]Anger makes you smaller, while forgiveness forces you to grow beyond what you were.[/b]
Cherie Carter-Scott, "If Love Is a Game, These Are the Rules"
Cherie Carter-Scott, "If Love Is a Game, These Are the Rules"
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CheshireCatalyst 路 36-40, M
I have in the past taken this to extremes, refusing to allow someone space to calm down or think because I NEED to fix everything. I guess it's all about balance.
ZenKitzune 路 F
@CheshireCatalyst space is good but apologies should be made as soon as you calm down I think. I'm a lot better at avoiding an argument these days, if someone else is angry I'll be more inclined to ask why rather than counter with more anger.
bijouxbroussard 路 F
I鈥檝e known so many situations where someone鈥檚 last conversation with a loved one was a quarrel or harsh words. I try really hard not to leave things without resolution and peace, because you never know when it will be that last goodbye. I kissed my husband, kissed my little son one morning before leaving for work. And never saw them again. 馃槥
bijouxbroussard 路 F
@SW-User No, I never remarried or had another child. I really respect that you were able to make a life for your son.
SW-User
Thank you. I'm extremely proud of him.
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SW-User
You're so right. My s/o has never resolved a single conflict with me. After weeks of the silent treatment, she then wants to act like nothing ever happened. I can't continue with her.
ZenKitzune 路 F
@SW-User I think that's why everyone comes here, whether they admit it or not lol
SW-User
Talk to me....
ZenKitzune 路 F
@SW-User I'm alright today. I just checked in to make sure a few peeps were ok
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Honeylove 路 46-50, F
I am the same.
SW-User
Wish my ex had the same policy
SW-User
Mine said the meanest things she could think of and let them stand. Mean angry woman.
ZenKitzune 路 F
@SW-User Mine emotionally abused me for 9 years. He would stand there while I tried to cook the kids lunches or wash dishes just endlessly picking at me and putting me down. He's a real piece of shit.
SW-User
We have to go thru so much to learn that anger is bad and forgiveness is greater
Mysteriousliaisons 路 56-60, M
Yes never wait to tell someone , for we never know if tomorrow never comes 馃
amvanquish 路 51-55, M
You make a very good point about forgiveness. I agree. I try to never hold a grudge.
SW-User
Alas, I am not so encumbered.
ZenKitzune 路 F
@SW-User This isn't just about having a significant other lol
SW-User
@ZenKitzune ah. Yeah, that either.
LTKISS 路 56-60, M
so true.
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antonioio 路 70-79, M
Hatred destroys a person
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5thApprentice 路 31-35, M
True