Anger makes you smaller, while forgiveness forces you to grow beyond what you were.
Cherie Carter-Scott, "If Love Is a Game, These Are the Rules"

I have in the past taken this to extremes, refusing to allow someone space to calm down or think because I NEED to fix everything. I guess it's all about balance.

I’ve known so many situations where someone’s last conversation with a loved one was a quarrel or harsh words. I try really hard not to leave things without resolution and peace, because you never know when it will be that last goodbye. I kissed my husband, kissed my little son one morning before leaving for work. And never saw them again. 😞

You're so right. My s/o has never resolved a single conflict with me. After weeks of the silent treatment, she then wants to act like nothing ever happened. I can't continue with her.

I am the same.

Wish my ex had the same policy

You make a very good point about forgiveness. I agree. I try to never hold a grudge.

Yes never wait to tell someone , for we never know if tomorrow never comes 🤗

Alas, I am not so encumbered.

so true.

🤗

True

Hatred destroys a person