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I Believe In Forgiveness

Life really is too short.

Whenever I fight with with my S/O I remember something I heard when I was a teenager. I had a bf back then who's dad died. His mother attended a bereavement group where she met a young guy who had been on holiday in China with his gf. One night they had had a big row at the hotel and she had stormed off. After a while when she hadn't returned he went looking but found nothing. The next day she was found dead, she'd been attacked and murdered. He was devastated, but the worst thing, he said, was the fact that their last words had been in anger.

I never forgot his story and I always try to make up as quickly as possible...I hate to think that my last words to anyone I care for would be angry ones.
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SW-User
Wish my ex had the same policy
ZenKitzune · F
@SW-User Don't we all lol
SW-User
Mine said the meanest things she could think of and let them stand. Mean angry woman.
ZenKitzune · F
@SW-User Mine emotionally abused me for 9 years. He would stand there while I tried to cook the kids lunches or wash dishes just endlessly picking at me and putting me down. He's a real piece of shit.
SW-User
We have to go thru so much to learn that anger is bad and forgiveness is greater