What is it with cishet people joining LGBTQ+ dating websites?!?!

@Azrael2 They are either looking for women or trying to cross-dress and shit. You never know

@SW-User and that's the point. It's wrong.

@Azrael2 I never said it was right, just trying to figure out why they went there

@CountScrofula agreed

@Azrael2 Regardless, sorry you gotta deal with that.

@CountScrofula I'm kinda sorry too lmao thanks though 💞

@Azrael2 Christians have been persecuted and murdered (and still are daily) long before "homosexuality" was even a word...

@wildbill83 Homosexuality has existed since there have been people. Christianity no so old.

@wildbill83 bruhhhh homosexuals were a thing before even Jesus was born lmaoooooooo get educated slut

Some identify as a women.

An they think THEY ARE truly a women.

So what do you call a women who likes a women?

A lesbian....





Why are you so angry????

You should give yourself best answer for this one. I think you need it.

@User41 WOW You stupid stupid. I said cis (which means they were born male/female and identify with the same) and het(which means people attracted to the opposite gender). In my case it would be cis men who are interested in women on a lesbian dating app. I don't have any problems with trans people.

I'm angry because cishet people keep invading our safe spaces. I want to talk to people like me, I want to talk to girls who are also interested in girls.

🤔 are you flirting with me???

@AmbivalentFriability ikr? People on here just wanna defend other's bigotry

@SW-User This is what a lot of straight people think persecution is like. "You mean I can't be on this dating site? OUTRAGE CENSORSHIP!" meanwhile like half of homeless youth are LGBT+

@SW-User into a space made EXCLUSIVELY for us? No, we won't. I don't want to talk to or see men when I join a LESBIAN dating app, sorry.

@Azrael2 You know, it used to be LGBT only. They accommodated some, but exclude others. LGBTQ+ certainly doesn't mean lesbian only.

@SW-User I'm talking about my experience, it goes for stuff like grindr too. Besides most lesbian and gay dating apps let, bi/pan/ace/trans/nb people join

[c=#7700B2]no I don't really look at replies when in conversation, I do that afterwards sometimes. Why do you keep saying "people like you" towards me? I think you are very bitter towards anyone who does not completely agree with you though, just the vibe I have got when always talking to you.. but I am going to use your own words against you now

"don't be judgemental! Let people be who they are! Live and let live!".[/c]

@PlumBerries yeah, well it's frustrating when you can't say anything (this wasn't even that controversial) without people like you saying idiotic stuff for no reason at all. You didn't even know what cishet meant and commented anyways.

Yeah, so let them, you're on my post lmfaooo, I'm not the one taking over your thread here 😂

[c=#7700B2]how am I taking over your thread? did you not want any discussions when writing this or did you just want you to say your opinion and have people just tell you what you want to hear?

yeah I didn't know what "cishet" is because people are constantly making new stupid labels for everyone and I am not keeping up with such stupidity..

but here I will give you what you want so I can move on to talking to someone who is actually enjoyable to talk with.. You are so right, how dare men go into a lesbian dating site. you are so brave for writing this and I am so incredibly sorry you have had to put up with this..

there you happy now? [/c]

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout bruh I don't want to see or talk to men on a LESBIAN dating app. Inclusion had nothing to do with it.

I’m just playin .. 😇@Azrael2

@Iamjessie yep!

@SW-User ikr??? I saw that too!! I get that there are bi men on grindr but they're obviously not interested in talking to girls while on grindr. She invaded a space she shouldn't have.

@SW-User it's frustrating, cis men shouldn't be on lesbian dating sites.

@Azrael2 oh that i agree with.. i see your point.

@Azrael2 i hate it when guys msg me here. Im a ts who only dates woman.

@TheWordWizard Nah, not when I join a lesbian dating app and see more men than women, I won't.

@SW-User honestly, I'm still researching on it 🤔 but I'm mostly with the cis women on that one. We'll see.
About the other thing, I couldn't be bothered to reply to people like you anymore so here's a copy and paste of one of my replies from somewhere else:

[quote] You don't get it? It's fine, you're not the one one who has been persecuted throughout history and still get persecuted in a huge portion of the world based on who you love or your identity; you don't get it, it's fine. People whose countries don't accept them (including mine) join those sites as a safe space to talk about our problems with people like us, who'll understand us and maybe even date us, even if it's ldr because of people like you irl who don't accept us or veil their homophobia and sexism as being "real" [/quote]


About the looking for bi people thing, I'm bi/pan. When I join a dating site made for lgbtq+ people it's for the sole purpose of meeting lgbtq+ people and not wanting to talk to cishet people for once. If i want to talk to cishet people, I'll go on tinder or okc.

Look..i'm not trying to make this complicated but I get it. I do. Being lgbt and coming from a place where that was frowned upon, I do understand. I want to discuss my issues with people that understand my struggles because it makes you feel better inside. I am talking about in a sense of Lgbt dating sites. I doubt anyone goes to grindr looking for compassion and understanding from other lgbt people. It's a hookup site. If a lesbian sees a man on a lesbian dating site, she can easily just ignore his creeping ass and find a woman.

Idk.... I guess i'm used to being forced to include straight people in all my daily life activities. 🤦‍♀️ It's not right.

@SW-User yeah but still, it's another thing if I see like one man. It's more men on there than women for fuck's sake.

@SatanBurger a man on a lesbian dating website? That's just disrespectful.

@Azrael2 You just stated cishet PEOPLE not men, women can be straight too and yes that is disrespectful, I see no reason why a straight man would be on a lesbian dating site, I'm sure they're trying to get laid..

@SatanBurger I stated cishet because girls on Grindr. Lgbtq+ websites have options for questioning and heteroflexible, I'm talking about people who aren't.

@SW-User okc and tinder are all inclusive. That's why I was telling them to join those. Apps like HER and Grindr are LGBT safe spaces.

@Azrael2 Abreviation used as slur. It"s always used under a negative context. That's a slur.

@MethDozer proof?
I like cishet people, there it's not negative now

@Azrael2 Like I am saying. You weren't looking as men looking for women so you wouldn't have any personal experience.

@MethDozer maybe not. Neither of the situations are right

@Azrael2 Meh....