What is it with cishet people joining LGBTQ+ dating websites?!?!

@PlumBerries oh yeah? I'm sorry I don't want to see straight cis men on a lesbian dating site. God forbid I ask for our safe spaces to be left alone. As if there aren't a heck of a lot inclusive sites for every one LGBT sites.

[c=#7700B2]maybe those men secretly identify as women and like other women 🤷‍♀️[/c]

@PlumBerries mum then they could just present as women (which they don't, they post OVERLY masculine pics ), if not, they could still tag their profile as trans so we know. You know why they don't? Because they ain't trans, I've met and talked to a lot of trans women and they ain't one of them.

[c=#7700B2]well that is the world we live in these days thanks to sjw's and so on. You say you identify as something therefore you are it. I don't disagree with you on what you are saying and I get it but the lgbtq community have openly supported such things and well you cant have it both ways.. gotta include anyone who wants to be apart of whatever it seems no matter how much they don't belong there[/c]

@PlumBerries wow you just proved your ignorance and apathy to me, thank you. I can just stop bothering with you now. That's like saying some Christians molest children so now all the Christians gotta deal with the consequences, nice. Good going there.

[c=#7700B2]how is it ignorant? do the lgbtq community not support trans rights? or inclusion? [/c]

@PlumBerries we support trans rights. Trans rights are NOT the same as cis people following trends and trying to be quirky. Which you're defending for no reason but to excuse your and other people's ignorance

[c=#7700B2]but who are you to say who is and who isn't trans? Those people might not be out in the open yet..[/c]

@PlumBerries it's pretty obvious in the way someone presents themselves. Trans people have dysphoria, they would avoid presenting in their birth assigned gender

[c=#7700B2]do they just? well what about the trans people who feel as though they can not fully come out as transgender because their family and friends wont accept them? Maybe they might be trying to push those feelings deep down inside and ignore them...
My bestie did exactly that for awhile [/c]

@PlumBerries then they need to sort their shit out before getting on dating apps. No trans woman with dysphoria, who's aware will ever sport a beard. Or do hyper masculine shit. If she's doing that, she needs to make it clear on the dating site.

[c=#7700B2]that is pretty judgemental. What about gender neutral people? anyway I see this not going anywhere but I will just lastly say who cares? people seem to want to include themselves in other groups all the time for example the boy scouts.. girls are now allowed in the boy scouts.

I get your annoyance with it and I am sure it is frustrating but again that seems to be with so many things now. People cant seem to have their own things or groups anymore due to social justice and all that silly nonsense .. You can say I am intolerant and whatever else but you have to know it is true, You are now just experiencing what so many others have to put up with now and yeah it sucks and if no one ever spoke out against it, things will just get worse and worse[/c]

@PlumBerries never said anything about gender neutral, trans, androgynous or any other lgbtq+ people. I was talking about cishet people only. If you refuse to understand that concept then that's your fault. Stop talking and putting words into my mouth. Lgbtq+ includes all nb/trans/gender non-conforming/androgynous people. I shouldn't have to make it clear. If you claim to know so much, you should know that too

[c=#7700B2]umm did I say you did say anything about gender neutral? I asked you about them. You are really defensive about this huh?
I am not putting words in your mouth I just think this whole thing is funny in a way is all...
Also I never once claimed to know so much, like I don't even know what "cishet" is.. I assume it is some new stupid title to describe straight people.. so sick of all these new labels. everyone has to have a label now.. but anyway back on your topic, You say you support all those groups of people but Does it bother you when people include themselves in other peoples groups like trans females going into all girl track teams or girls going in the boy scouts and so on? Or does it only bother you when it personally effects you? [/c]

@PlumBerries cishet is literally just an abbreviation for cisgender and heterosexual ( I hope you know what that means).
Bruhhhh have you read my replies to other people, ive said all that needs to be said about those issues before, I'm not typing it out for people like you again; you an go look for my answers if you're genuinely curious. If you don't then I'll just assume you're trying to prove a irrelevant point that doesn't need to be proven.

[c=#7700B2]no I don't really look at replies when in conversation, I do that afterwards sometimes. Why do you keep saying "people like you" towards me? I think you are very bitter towards anyone who does not completely agree with you though, just the vibe I have got when always talking to you.. but I am going to use your own words against you now

"don't be judgemental! Let people be who they are! Live and let live!".[/c]

@PlumBerries yeah, well it's frustrating when you can't say anything (this wasn't even that controversial) without people like you saying idiotic stuff for no reason at all. You didn't even know what cishet meant and commented anyways.

Yeah, so let them, you're on my post lmfaooo, I'm not the one taking over your thread here 😂

[c=#7700B2]how am I taking over your thread? did you not want any discussions when writing this or did you just want you to say your opinion and have people just tell you what you want to hear?

yeah I didn't know what "cishet" is because people are constantly making new stupid labels for everyone and I am not keeping up with such stupidity..

but here I will give you what you want so I can move on to talking to someone who is actually enjoyable to talk with.. You are so right, how dare men go into a lesbian dating site. you are so brave for writing this and I am so incredibly sorry you have had to put up with this..

there you happy now? [/c]