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TerriME · 36-40, F
I almost did at my first job right out of college because it was an absolute nightmare. Not only were people stabbing each other in the back but I was constantly being thrown under the bus by my boss for things that were her shortcomings, even in front of the president of the company. The worst thing , though, is that my co-workers and boss constantly picked on me and teased me because of my disability (I have Cerebral Palsy), how I talked, the interests I had, even how many commas I used when writing. Almost anything they could turn against me. In hindsight I should have sued the company but I was just so happy to land another job and get out. (And I live in a small town that is not flush with opportunities for a web designer.)

Even though I'm "grown up" now and have many more responsibilities, I would still quit if my current job ever got that bad. While quitting and not having income has stress of its own, you do have to consider what kind of mental anguish you can take.

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I did and regretted it deeply. Being unemployed and unable to find work is very stressful and depressing.
I know how it feels to be jobless and broke. So, no, I wouldn't.
@Newandimproved: And the chances of that? Impossiblè. Just not worth it.
Newandimproved · 70-79, M
totally agree - any time I want to play the lottery I just set a $5 bill on fire and throw it out the window :)
@Newandimproved: Same same, right? Lol. 😏
When I was at an unbearable job, I was able to limit my hours every day so that I could get in, do my work, and leave. But, I had also found a part time night job back then, to make up some of my income I was losing at the initial job. That night job lead to a full time position elsewhere in that area, and I left the other two jobs for good.
CheshireCatalyst · 41-45, M
Do you think you'd be happier sitting at home with no money?

This is not a facetious question, it's genuinely the thing you have to consider.
CheshireCatalyst · 41-45, M
What do you do? / What do you want to do?
maybesomeday · 31-35, F
@ChasingBrainBros: Work in retail. No idea what I want to do, maybe that's half the problem. The ideas I do have, if any, require study. But I can't afford to pay for study, and can't study without also earning money.
Summergirly · 26-30, F
Student loans.... my college paid my tuition with grants and scholarships and I only took out a small loan to help pay my rent for a house w/friends for the school year. Seriously the best decision I've made. My family was really toxic. @maybesomeday:
Newandimproved · 70-79, M
only in my dreams

I have a mortgage
need utilities
I get paid relatively well for this area
and jobs are scarce
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I have faced this situation and still going through.. But didn't quit because it is not a good decision.. Rather try to cope up with miseries coz life is hard.
firefall · 61-69, M
No. I have no belief the world owes me a living, if I don't earn it for myself, I'll be left to starve: so no, I'd keep working, and looking for a new job.
Summergirly · 26-30, F
You should probably find a different job first
Summergirly · 26-30, F
I've wanted to quit mine many times but they pay me $11.50 per hour and at any other job they've paid me $9.60 because that's minimum wage so😬 Also it's going up to 13.50 if I go through with host training but I just can't imagine spending any more time there than I already do
maybesomeday · 31-35, F
@TheFlowerThatBloomsInAdversity: At least you get the hours and the money. I barely even get that. :|
Summergirly · 26-30, F
get another job and work both then? That's what I did for a year but then I quit both and went to my current place
ConfusedMonkey · 41-45, M
No I've felt like it in the past but wouldn't take that gamble.
doctorlove · M
Nope - probably not until I found something else.
No, taking care of my family's needs is my priority.
testbutton · 51-55, M
no way. get a new job first. it's easier to get a new job when you have your old job.
testbutton · 51-55, M
it IS better to look for a new job when you have a job instead of being unemployed. think of it from the potential employers point of view. would you rather hire someone who is working or someone who can't hold onto a job? you are a much better option for the new company when you are working.
maybesomeday · 31-35, F
@testbutton: A fair point, but that scenario can't exist if a job opportunity doesn't exist. There's no spots open in any area where I live.
testbutton · 51-55, M
@maybesomeday: but you still have a lot of options:
- keep looking, maybe nothing today but maybe something tomorrow
- look in other areas
- look at other types of work. no matter what you do, you probably have skills that can be used in different areas of work.
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CuTiePi · F
no just keeping looking for another job you could be even more miserable without a job. Its easier to get a job when you are still in employment apparently.
maybesomeday · 31-35, F
Not when there's literally no jobs actually available.
CuTiePi · F
that's why I think you should wait it out ...good luck.
TrunkZ · 56-60, M
Not unless you have the resources to survive until you find a new job.
Transformedandevolved · 26-30, M
I will seek a spiritual path and see where things are going.
BlueRaine · 51-55, F
At this age yes. Years ago no.
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I have, but you do have to think about income in the real world...damn real world!
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
If I had money or a plan. Otherwise, what else?

Maybe I'd just travel around.
maybesomeday · 31-35, F
I'd choose travelling if only I had the money. Money is tight even with a damn job, so it seems kind of pointless.
Summergirly · 26-30, F
Money is tight with a job but imagine without?? It SUCKS because you eventually run out of money. I've been there @maybesomeday:
maybesomeday · 31-35, F
@TheFlowerThatBloomsInAdversity: True. My savings can only go so far without a job. Once that runs out, I'm screwed.
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