Did this ever happen to you?

A coworker recently messaged to me in a drunken moment and told me he has been attracted to me for some time. That’s really surprising bc I had no idea whatsoever. He's married with 3 girls. I’m not single myself and def am not looking around so that really came out of nowhere except that we do work together from time to time on larger projects.

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Roundandroundwego · 61-69

Yeah, eeeewweee!

GoFish ·

no but some years ago some married guy with two kids wanted to be with my sister.. he said his wife was mean to him and hit him with a frying pan and my dad said he didn't blame her 😒 the guy latter killed himself 🤐

DoubleRings · F

@GoFish omg with a frying pan!! Theres prob more to that story

GoFish ·

@DoubleRings i mean he has the nerve to go after my sister while having a wife and two kids? what was he thinking and what else was he doing? it's disrespectful of him to his wife 😳🤐😳

GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M

Hmm.. yeah alcohol does that.

GeminiRain · M

I hate when that happens

ViciDraco · 41-45, M

That's going to get awkward

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DoubleRings · F

@ArtieKat or the feeling is so intense it’s worth the risk?? Bc I wasn’t giving off the fondness vibes other than doing my job. I show up to work frumpy af in my “work pajamas” so I def didn’t think I was impressing anyone.

ArtieKat · M

@DoubleRings I understand what you're saying. My comment came from personal experience - I had a long relationship with someone I met at work: she was the PA to my boss, and was married with kids. Unlike your situation we had flirted with one another so I had a reasonable expectation before I kissed her for the first time.

ViciDraco · 41-45, M

@DoubleRings Some guys like "frumpy". I speak as one of them. I appreciate the embrace of comfort over trying to impress. Though, being unable to control one's desire is an entirely different red flag.

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