Confronted my a-hole doctor in front of my supervisor today and told him to stop shouting at nurses and learn some professionalism.

I'm proud of you for speaking up.

Atleast someone spoke up. Good on you for doing that.

You’re my hero. 🦸‍♀

I'm proud of you 👏

So proud of you my grandchild 🤗

I AM SO PROUD OF YOU

Good for you for standing up to him

I’m so glad to hear that you stood up to him. The rest of your nurse staff must be so proud of you.

Let me tell you sonmtine. You weren’t soft

You stood up for the nurses while you were upset, and you still said what needed to be said. Crying doesn’t cancel out your courage; You can be furious, clear, and teary all at once. 🫂

So don't beat yourself up, because you teared up. Everyone is proud of you for what you did.

Confronting the doctor about his bad behavior took guts. You're anything but soft.

It's fine, you did great 💖🫂

You did the right thing. The Dbag needed to hear that.

You spoke up, bravely and passionately. The tears were part of that. That’s not soft. 🫂

I angry cry too

aww well hopefully positive change comes of it.. good on you for telling his ass off lol

That took courage.

Speaking to the issue gets easier next time. The tears stay away each time you make the point

You had the guts to stand up to him. A lot of other people wouldn't confront someone in that kind of situation.

You did great! And the tears only showed how important it is to you.

That said, I think the correct term for such a doctor is a proctologist.

You're not soft.
Swallowing your words would have been soft.

I think it's great that you stood up.
Tears and all.

I probably would have applauded you if I were there

I don’t think that’s excessive softness. Most of us are taught from little up not to show negative emotion. That can be good or bad, depending on the application.

What eventually happens is we get too good at suppressing anger and grief and all that stuff people don’t want to see. When the lid of the pressure cooker finally blows off, everything explodes, including our shame at losing control. For many years, when I got really angry, I cried. It was so frustrating. Righteous anger shouldn’t produce tears, but then again, you can’t slap people silly when that’s actually what you want to do.

Ironic that tears are “emotional” but shouting is “authority.” It’s not, and those who shout a lot, almost always at people who are powerless to shout back is a display of absolutely uncontrolled emotion.

You’re not soft as you’re the only one that spoke up! Hold your head high and go with dignity!

I'm sure you got your point across...

Is that the man sausage eater?

It's not a crime to have emotions. You work hard, you are tired and stressed as anyone working in a hospital could be expected to be. You stood up for yourself and the other nurses and that's pretty cool.

Right or wrong, good or bad, that wouldn’t fly here. Here Dr’s rule and the nurse that dared do that would be fired …

I’m not criticizing you my dear, just telling you how that is here.

That was just anger leaving your body

Nothing soft about standing up for yourself.