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Macromastia making my life hell!

Heya ladies, I could really use some advice and support.

I've always had bigger boobs than my friends since school and remember the awkward questions and lessons about puberty and how our body changes. I'd be happy if it stopped then, but I guess my girls had other plans..

In the past year I've been slowly but surely ballooning in size. At first I didn't think much of it. I thought to myself it's a laundry mishap and my top was slightly shrunk from the wash, but now I can't ignore the signs. My back is hurting, my boobs are sensitive, and of course, still growing. Now, I can't go out of my house without the constant staring on the street, the struggle of finding clothes that fit, and having to splash out on custom bras every other month (which isn't cheap!) is a nightmare. I'm feeling low and starting to hate myself in the mirror.

Surgery isn't an option for me at this time, meanwhile I'm still growing and I don't know how to handle the pressure that I'm still getting bigger.

What else is there that I could do?
TheBustyBlogger · 26-30, F
Hey there,

I hear you, and I want you to know that I've been there too. Dealing with the constant growth and the physical discomfort that comes with it can be incredibly tough. But trust me, there are things you can do to make it a little easier on yourself.

First and foremost, remember to be kind to yourself. Your body is doing what it needs to do, and that's nothing to be ashamed of. Instead of focusing on the negatives, try to practice some positive self-talk. Remind yourself that your breasts are beautiful, no matter how big they get. You are so much more than your cup size, and you deserve to feel confident and comfortable in your own skin.

When it comes to managing the growth, paying attention to your diet can make a big difference. Eating a balanced diet with plenty of fruits, vegetables, and lean proteins can help keep your weight in check and prevent your breasts from getting even bigger. It's all about finding what works for you and your body, so don't be afraid to experiment and see what makes you feel your best.

And when it comes to bras, definitely check out brands like Ewa Michalak or Elizabeth Valentine. They specialize in bras for women with macromastia and offer a wide range of sizes and styles to choose from. Investing in a good, supportive bra can make a world of difference in terms of comfort and confidence.

Above all, remember that you are not alone in this journey. There are plenty of women out there who understand what you're going through and are here to offer support and encouragement. So lean on your support network, take care of yourself, and know that you are beautiful and worthy of love, no matter what size your breasts are.

You've got this! 💖
potatosapien · 26-30, M
I think finding a social environment that gives you permission to go topless would be something useful to search for, if you're looking for some sort of relief from the pressure of people who judge you for your ever-growing size. A s long as it's welcoming, and function as a breathing room from the struggles of it all, you can give yourself permission to love yourself, and your breasts.

It could be physical or virtual if that's what you desire, but that's what I suggest at least. If you have any more questions, don't hesitate to ask!
Anniedlr · 26-30, F
Consult your Doctor as it may be controllable with drugs 🙂🐼🥢
Anniedlr · 26-30, F
@HarleenQuinzel21 Haha as a Brit I know the problems with the NHS. I’m not a medical practitioner but I suggest you Google “restricting breast growth with drugs” Tamoxifen is one that might help
HarleenQuinzel21 · 22-25, F
@Anniedlr Is Tamoxifen safe to take? I've read the effects on Cancer research that it will block my hormones and is used to treat cancer. What would happen to my periods for example, is it similar to birth control?

The last thing I want is to take something that can throw my hormones out of balance
Anniedlr · 26-30, F
@HarleenQuinzel21 As I said previously I’m not a medical practitioner. I would suggest the best advice is to consult your Doctor
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
Sorry you’re struggling 🥺 welcome to Similar Worlds lovely to meet you 🥰
XxEllaxRawrxX · 13-15
I'm so sorry that you're going through these struggles madam <3 as a flat chested girl this sounds like a dream come true but I truly apologize you're struggling with Macromastia
Sorry to hear of your distress, I would heavily encourage custom bra fitting, physical therapy, weight training/body weight training to strengthen your core and back muscles. All of these should help you tremendously. Don’t sleep on these. Take care of your body.
Danny2591 · 31-35, M
So, basically, they just started ballooning up a year ago and before they were totally normal?o.o
HarleenQuinzel21 · 22-25, F
@Danny2591 yeah basically
Danny2591 · 31-35, M
@HarleenQuinzel21 Huh... that's odd, kinda like a late bloomer it seems.

Btw, I sent you a message if that's fine for you, I have friends who have to deal with that too. (Hey, that rhymed!)
DymondHed · 36-40, M
the fact that something visually beautiful causes so much pain and struggle truly breaks my part. i wish you the best
RheaTerror · 26-30, F
Hormone treatments. Surgery. All options really. Just depends if your insurance will cover it.
Fatteninglover97 · 26-30, M
When did they really become uncomfortable?
HarleenQuinzel21 · 22-25, F
@Fatteninglover97 about 2-3 months ago, just before the new year. I've finally found a comfortable position that works for me when I'm sleeping at least.
Fatteninglover97 · 26-30, M
@HarleenQuinzel21 you poor thing 🥺🥺 sending hugs 🫂
Fatteninglover97 · 26-30, M
Hope you find a solution one day 🥺❤️ wanna chat privately about it? 😄
Fatteninglover97 · 26-30, M
Would love to chat privately about it if you want
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
Good morning dear how are you doing today
Fatteninglover97 · 26-30, M
Bet you give great hugs tbh
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
Speak to @KimBras ... she's a lovely Lady, she'll give you advice
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
Sorry to hear, but you have a lovely figure
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
Is the advice given, working

 
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