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Mirror Mirror

It's easy to want what you do not have and have what you do not want.
It's much harder to make peace with your own inner and outer self when your body doesn't always feel like your own.
This is not a complaint or a cry for help, just a vent to release my thoughts.
Storyteller4u2 · 61-69, M
It's also easy with an active imagination to daydream and step aside from reality for a fantasy where you can imagine yourself in your ideal self. Something I did for years in thought then also in writing as roleplay and stories. And an amazing thing happened when I noticed reality started to merge with my imagined ideal, not quickly mind you, but what I always imagined others would say is heard from time to time by those who appreciate me now for me in my older self.
Richard65 · M
I imagine it doesn't help when people stare at you or make comments about your body (which is what I'm guessing happens to you a lot). I've spoken to a few women who feel the same.
JJBarista · 22-25, F
@Richard65 I am an adult and do my best not to let others influence my sense of self. That does not mean some people aren't simply jerks
KingFeeder · 36-40, M
I think you either just entered sage mode or achieved enlightenment. Either way, we'll spoken!
Annie1899 · 36-40, F
There are better days and worse days, same as with most things.
SW-User
Just accept the fact that you have big boobs and that ( mostly ) guys are going to love you for that, life will be much easier for you.

Too many women fight and strive in vain to try and get some miraculous change in testosterone packed sex obsessed mindsets only to end up depressed and alone, to all them i say good luck with that.
AceWarbringer · 36-40, M
The world does not give us what we want. It only gives us what we need.
JJBarista · 22-25, F
@ToniaMV 🙂😊no, a bit of a travel to Stockholm.
Some interesting interpretations by many on my post on how I feel at times. Always open to various perspectives.
ToniaMV · 22-25, F
@JJBarista Dear! To clarify - I don't mean that I disagree with you, JJ - on the contrary - I have many such mirr - mirr experiences - I meant to join you in disagreeing with AceWarbringer - and this is a battle for us women who have been receiving over excessive gifts by Mother Nature - not a battle of war between Body and Mind - least involving focus of male attention.
JJBarista · 22-25, F
@ToniaMV thank you for your clarification ToniaMV
Popobandar1993 · 26-30, M
And sometimes you feel you are stuck with it , but then at days you feel confident and doesn't care , even it looks very pretty and you know you would find ways
Montanaman · M
https://similarworlds.com/7787600-I-Write-Short-Stories/1815682-The-Mirror-Before-you-can-love-another-you-must
Snowleopard2000 · 51-55, M
I always feel I'm looking into one of those fairground mirrors that is distorting my body!
DMmeyourtits · 22-25, M
Not caring about what other people think is a superpower. But people can be real shitty sometimes.
DanteD · 51-55, M
Major hugs with your choice of shoulders to rest your head on.....
leotheromeo · 31-35, M
Its almost like a poem, well written JJ
You're quite right.
Yknow0508 · 22-25, M
Be proud of your chest
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
Good for you.
HotPizza71 · 51-55, M
I'd say I felt this way until I felt I matured into my body , physically and mentally,from around my late 20s onwards..It's all about living yourself,away from the peer pressures around us,just finding peace within yourself
SW-User
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BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
Off-topic ... how are you finding SW, as you're relatively new here 🤷🏼‍♂️🤷🏼‍♂️🤷🏼‍♂️
JJBarista · 22-25, F
@BigGuy2 a bit like watching a reality show where you swear you won't watch again and then binge four episodes
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
@JJBarista 🤔 ... very astute, you've summed it up quite well
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
Why do you feel your body is not your own 🤷🏼‍♂️🤷🏼‍♂️🤷🏼‍♂️
JJBarista · 22-25, F
@BigGuy2 It is more and less complex than that. I think we all have days where we don't feel exactly correct.
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
@JJBarista ... well said, but i've come across your comnents from women who have Big Busts a lot, more than usual
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
Why do you feel your bodies not your own 🤷🏼‍♂️🤷🏼‍♂️🤷🏼‍♂️
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
How have you been 🤷🏼‍♂️🤷🏼‍♂️🤷🏼‍♂️
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
Have you made 'peace'

 
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