What characteristics make a man a creep?
Curious to know if it's specific things or more broad, and whether these things tend to be universal or differ between women 🤔
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Scribbles · 36-40, F
Some things that have creeped me out from men over the years:
Staring at me for longer then a minute. Women who do this creep me out too.
Trying to follow me home or make excuses to try and come inside where I live when I don't know them. Or following me when I'm out on a walk or going somewhere and watching me.
Or watching me from a distance for several days when I go out to a track to run.
Acting like a d-bag and treating other people crudely or callously or with cruelty.
Unusual, gross, or illegal sexual obsessions creep me out.
A man telling me about the illegal pervy things he's done to harass other women or other people.
Telling me that he'll stalk me, or do inappropriate things to me.
Spying on me or other people changing clothing.
sending creepy messages or pictures.
Follow me and tries to insist on doing something nice for me when I don't know him.
A group of men following me and chatting me up about how much they think I'd like their dicks and then grabbing my arm to get me to stay longer then a short polite conversation.
I could go on and on...
In general the men I stay away from are any men who would treat me totally differently (like a object with no right to say No) if I'm by myself verses with my partner or with a male friend.
Staring at me for longer then a minute. Women who do this creep me out too.
Trying to follow me home or make excuses to try and come inside where I live when I don't know them. Or following me when I'm out on a walk or going somewhere and watching me.
Or watching me from a distance for several days when I go out to a track to run.
Acting like a d-bag and treating other people crudely or callously or with cruelty.
Unusual, gross, or illegal sexual obsessions creep me out.
A man telling me about the illegal pervy things he's done to harass other women or other people.
Telling me that he'll stalk me, or do inappropriate things to me.
Spying on me or other people changing clothing.
sending creepy messages or pictures.
Follow me and tries to insist on doing something nice for me when I don't know him.
A group of men following me and chatting me up about how much they think I'd like their dicks and then grabbing my arm to get me to stay longer then a short polite conversation.
I could go on and on...
In general the men I stay away from are any men who would treat me totally differently (like a object with no right to say No) if I'm by myself verses with my partner or with a male friend.
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Pinkglitter · 31-35, F
KiwiDan · 31-35, M
@Pinkglitter that's reasonable.
bijouxbroussard · F
@SW-User What [b]is[/b] a "white knight"? I’ve seen guys accused of that sticking up for friends who were being treated like crap.
SW-User
@bijouxbroussard [quote]someone who rushes to the defense of another online, a person whose actions aren't seen as worthy of defense.[/quote]
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lumberjackslam · 41-45, M
Nebula · 41-45, F
deadgerbil · 22-25
KiwiDan · 31-35, M
@canusernamebemyusername it certainly seems that way.
KiwiDan · 31-35, M
@SW-User huh. OK then.
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KiwiDan · 31-35, M
@SW-User Having an opinion?
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Elevatorpitches · F
KiwiDan · 31-35, M
@Elevatorpitches makes sense
KiwiDan · 31-35, M
@neurodivirgin harsh but fair
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
KiwiDan · 31-35, M
@SkeetSkeet what is the appropriate amount though?