How can I get a flat/toned belly?

I used to have a flat, toned, belly until I was 12 and BOOM I gained weight when puberty hit. I am losing weight but my belly is still flabby and jiggly. Ugh! I envy people that have toned, flat bellies. I understand that everyone has a pooch, but I don’t like that my belly is flabby. I’ve been doing crunches but it isn’t working.
Tall and chubby isn’t cute.

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Mktonght · 61-69, M

First of all, I want to say that you need to work on your self-esteem as well as your tummy.
I know because I am there as well.
It is tough to like yourself when you feel that no one can like you as yourself, if ohysically is the most important issue for you I promise you will never get to a point where you are 100% pleased with your looks.
Tall and beautiful is a thing that supermodels. quest for, so you are 99% there.
Beautiful is more then 50% a state of mind. So please look at yourself as a precious child of God.
Be patient and smile daily, is you want some of and honest counceling, I am always willing to chat 100% confidentially.