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I Flew On a Plane

I hesitated whether to write this but after two weeks of it lingering in my head, I thought it’s better to let it out.

On my last flight back to Asia, I took a Lufthansa flight. It was a long haul flight and I had made up my mind that if I could not get a wink of sleep, I could make better use of my time by catching some movies.

I was in the middle of some dark and dreary Peruvian film when the stewardess approached with the meals. She was coming from the back so I did not see her at first. I unplugged my ear plugs and hurriedly unlocked the tray in front of me as she lay the food down.

I did not expect what was to happen next. Before she walked away, she said,’Maybe before I come by, you can prepare the table first’. I was taken aback. I said nothing. I think I was too stunned to react.

I have re-played that scene so many times in my head now. And rehearsed too what I should have said back. I do not know if that is the typical thing an air stewardess says to a passenger but I thought it was rude.

Tell me if I’m over-reacting.
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Sssslm · F
She s rude. But when I meet foreign people like this, I am not sure but I often think maybe it s their culture and not intend to be rude.
novembermoon · 51-55
@Sssslm I know what you mean. Maybe they are just straightforward. That was what had been running in my mind too. Then if that's the case, I should be straightforward too and tell her I did not know she was coming from behind and it is normal for one absorbed in a movie to take some time to unlock the tray. I should not have kept quiet. Being quiet sometimes makes one look like a pushover.
Sssslm · F
@novembermoon yes I would have the same thought too. Our upbringing is different here, it becomes our habit not to react straightforward enough which often puts us in disadvantaged position. I dont know if it s all bad or good to behave either way but it certainly requires effort if we want to change.