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I Flew On a Plane

I hesitated whether to write this but after two weeks of it lingering in my head, I thought it’s better to let it out.

On my last flight back to Asia, I took a Lufthansa flight. It was a long haul flight and I had made up my mind that if I could not get a wink of sleep, I could make better use of my time by catching some movies.

I was in the middle of some dark and dreary Peruvian film when the stewardess approached with the meals. She was coming from the back so I did not see her at first. I unplugged my ear plugs and hurriedly unlocked the tray in front of me as she lay the food down.

I did not expect what was to happen next. Before she walked away, she said,’Maybe before I come by, you can prepare the table first’. I was taken aback. I said nothing. I think I was too stunned to react.

I have re-played that scene so many times in my head now. And rehearsed too what I should have said back. I do not know if that is the typical thing an air stewardess says to a passenger but I thought it was rude.

Tell me if I’m over-reacting.
JustNik · 51-55, F
If it’s that big a deal, why don’t they walk through first and let everyone know meals are coming out and it’s time to put trays down? It sounds like you just got a cranky one. 🤗
novembermoon · 51-55
@JustNik exactly. I thought it was downright rude.
TexChik · F
She was out of line ...but those long haul flights are tough on them too ... and who knows what else she had going on in her mind at that moment . You should just be magnanimous let it go . It’s not worth a second thought ... but next time , leave one ear piece out when it’s close to dinner time so you can hear them coming 😉
novembermoon · 51-55
@TexChik in fact, I always do keep a look-out when they come with the food. Problem was - she came from behind and so I did not see her.
TexChik · F
@novembermoon just a bad day for everyone, sorry that happened
goagainsttheflow · 26-30, F
You should send a complaint about it. That was rude.
novembermoon · 51-55
First time I flew with Lufthansa and other than this incident, everything else went ok. If it happens again, I will raise it with the airline. Thanks.@goagainsttheflow
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novembermoon · 51-55
@fairefoutre agree.
xixgun · M
Just another sign of the lack of respect that the airlines have for passengers. Seats used to have 36 inches between them, now they have 17. You were fortunate to get food at all as many airlines have done away with it.
novembermoon · 51-55
@xixgun no food, really? 😱 It's true airline companies have become rather high-handed.
Sssslm · F
She s rude. But when I meet foreign people like this, I am not sure but I often think maybe it s their culture and not intend to be rude.
novembermoon · 51-55
@Sssslm I know what you mean. Maybe they are just straightforward. That was what had been running in my mind too. Then if that's the case, I should be straightforward too and tell her I did not know she was coming from behind and it is normal for one absorbed in a movie to take some time to unlock the tray. I should not have kept quiet. Being quiet sometimes makes one look like a pushover.
Sssslm · F
@novembermoon yes I would have the same thought too. Our upbringing is different here, it becomes our habit not to react straightforward enough which often puts us in disadvantaged position. I dont know if it s all bad or good to behave either way but it certainly requires effort if we want to change.
Cierzo · M
You are not over-reacting. She was very rude. It is logical you did not feel respected
novembermoon · 51-55
@Cierzo I wonder how airlines train their crew these days. You don't have to be subservient but definitely courtesy and politeness should be something we expect.
Livingwell · 61-69, M
I agree. Very rude!
novembermoon · 51-55
Yes. It was so uncalled for.@Livingwell
It [b]was[/b] rude. For all she knew, it could’ve been your first time flying. She did [b]not[/b] have to say that. 😒
novembermoon · 51-55
Agree. I just tell myself to be more alert and to speak my mind in future if it happens to me again. @bijouxbroussard
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