What is your definition of a 'holiday'?
To me, a 'holiday' is as simple as a single day off work where I have the day totally to myself with no plans, no demands, no requirements to appeal to anyone else. Selfish yes, but sometimes we need to be selfish to restore even a small semblence of self-worth without seeking subs, likes, or validation from anyone else (children, romantic partners, friends, family, workmates, bosses, general public, fundy religious politicians, etc.).