I Want a Vacation

I want a vacation after my parents die. Right now I am sick of everything that has to deal with them. It may sybd cruel but I have takem care of them all of my life, missed a childhood, now they are old and dying and need care.

Nursing homes are not an option nor is a nurse so its me. I hate a d at times I hate them. Enough is enough already.

You dont know how this feels until you have to deal with it.

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ChocolateSauce · 46-50, F

Update:

My father is once again in S-ICU because his sugar level is an 800. He has a bad infection in his catheter and 102 fever. He cannot walk and barely talk.

My mother can't cope and had a nervous breakdown and is in a different hospital in a different town 20 mins away.

Some people thought what I said was cruel but what do you think about my situation? Anybody willing to help?

DownTheStreet · 56-60, M

Who takes care of the caregiver? Totally agree and understand your desire for a complete vacation

ChocolateSauce · 46-50, F

Nobody takes care of me. Soon I will take a dirt nap.

SW-User

Is there no respite provision? That's too much for one person to bear...

ChocolateSauce · 46-50, F

Tell me about it.

elVato · 46-50, M

i sense anger towards you parents.

ChocolateSauce · 46-50, F

Wouldn't you have anger?

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