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I agree about the necessity of having a guarded nature in all manner of relationships these days, perhaps it was always "these days". It is a simple matter for many to veil intent and utilize well practiced maneuvers to distract from sometimes obvious deceits Many a grain of salt should be expended with most.
Yet at once this may be why I find online interaction to be so fulfilling. People tend to reveal so much of themselves when forced to convey their thoughts in a written form. It may be that I have an intuition not shared by most, but I have been fortunate in both the piercing of veils when there is something fishy about or easing down walls when someone is guarded from long exposure to those who are not genuine.
A guarded nature is not a terrible thing, it allows a particular vantage point from which to see larger pictures than those who run headlong into all aspects of life.
Yet at once this may be why I find online interaction to be so fulfilling. People tend to reveal so much of themselves when forced to convey their thoughts in a written form. It may be that I have an intuition not shared by most, but I have been fortunate in both the piercing of veils when there is something fishy about or easing down walls when someone is guarded from long exposure to those who are not genuine.
A guarded nature is not a terrible thing, it allows a particular vantage point from which to see larger pictures than those who run headlong into all aspects of life.
NewKidInTown · 51-55, M
But how do you recognize those patterns before its too late?
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NewKidInTown · 51-55, M
@OWise1: Absolutely. How can one love another when they dont love themself? Its a recipe for disaster for both parties.
OWise1 · F
@NewKidInTown: Exactly! Plus many rely on others to love them instead of valuing the time with one another and learning one another's love language so to speak. Who would think the most beautiful emotion on the planet could be so evaluative and full of such analysis? lol
NewKidInTown · 51-55, M
@OWise1: Its so easy and complicated at the same time. But like anything worth its salt, takes time and effort to mine its finest qualities.
Goodnight, O wise Owl.
I hope we can chat again soon :)
Goodnight, O wise Owl.
I hope we can chat again soon :)
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Invisible · 26-30, M
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bijouxbroussard · F
Yes, often.