how do i tell my husbands friend to shut up

@DidIHurtYourFeelings: then you need to make him underatand that it isn't funny to you. Ask him to isnsist that his frienfs treat you with respect.

When i was still with my ex, I realized that his friends had no more respect for him thsn they did for me, because he let them treat his wife and child with distespect.

Feb. 20/17
4:54 am
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@Serenitree: I don't think my husband would let anyone disrespect me. I also think iade it a little hard for my husband to ever defend me cause I am pretty out spoken

@DidIHurtYourFeelings: I was too. My ex said he didnt feel the need to stop them, because i was capable pf doing it myself. I felt I shouldn't have to tell his buddies to stop being rude and making sexual comments to me and lewd remarks to our little girls.

Feb. 20/17
11:06 am
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Lol I hope not. He's just a blunt guy and I don't think he's trying to be a perv I just wish he would stop with the little remarks

It's been four years he's never tried just says dumb stuff. I just need to figure out how to tell him to stop because I don't like it

Yep

@DidIHurtYourFeelings: and what does he say about it?

@DownTheStreet: he don't say anything. Once we had a issue a long time ago where one of his friends did try something, I told my husband what his friend did and he said "I trust you" so I don't think he will ever say anything unless I tell him to