how do i tell my husbands friend to shut up

My husbands friend is always making little remarks at me and talking about my booty is big for my nationality or how I look like I don't have kids. Sure that's nice and all but makes me feel weird

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Serenitree · F

How does your husband feel about that?

Feb. 20/17
4:43 am
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DidIHurtYourFeelings · F

He just laughs cause he thinks his friend is being silly

Serenitree · F

@DidIHurtYourFeelings: then you need to make him underatand that it isn't funny to you. Ask him to isnsist that his frienfs treat you with respect.

When i was still with my ex, I realized that his friends had no more respect for him thsn they did for me, because he let them treat his wife and child with distespect.

Feb. 20/17
4:54 am
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DidIHurtYourFeelings · F

@Serenitree: I don't think my husband would let anyone disrespect me. I also think iade it a little hard for my husband to ever defend me cause I am pretty out spoken

Serenitree · F

@DidIHurtYourFeelings: I was too. My ex said he didnt feel the need to stop them, because i was capable pf doing it myself. I felt I shouldn't have to tell his buddies to stop being rude and making sexual comments to me and lewd remarks to our little girls.

Feb. 20/17
11:06 am
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