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First impressions

Have you ever ran across someone (especially but not limited to) here that made you think 'what an asshole' but you ended up genuinely liking the person?
And does that mean I'm open minded and accepting or does it mean I'm an asshole too, you know with the whole birds of a feather thing?...
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hartfire · 61-69
That happened to me on another social site. For the first couple of years I loathed the guy's sarcastic idea of humor..
Later, I discovered he was kind to many, tolerant to those he disagreed with, and intelligent.
Tumbleweed · F
@hartfire that's why I like to check people out before I make a final decision that I do not like them, because you never know what a person is going thru or has been thru that causes them to have a hard shell... I've made some good friends with the ones I started out strongly disliking..
Magenta · F
Sure. I think we can end up truly liking someone we didn't like in the beginning and defo vice versa too.
Maybe it's more about perception. We are faceted not black and white, right?
Tumbleweed · F
@Magenta I like that!! Yes
It’s happened quite a few times. There have been times where my first instinct ended up being correct but it took me a while to realize it, and other times where i was thoroughly proven wrong
@Tumbleweed I will say, I am also probably an acquired taste to most as well.
Tumbleweed · F
@DisappearingTide I can be a bit much myself sometimes!!
@Tumbleweed this seems to be the way of human kind. lol. I just try to be the best me I can be on each day. I’m sure you do the same.
Yep! Happened couple times
Different · 31-35, M
They say opposites attract
Selah ·
I don't stick around long enough to see their character arc.
Tumbleweed · F
@Selah I quickly form oponions with people like that but I sideline and check them out for awhile before I decide whether or not I can make friends with them...
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
Oh Lord LOL unfortunately my friend a lot of people here see me as an a****** but truthfully only the opinions of my dear friends like you really matter to me at all. Smile how are you? Everyone else who doesn't like me can gag on the giant water weenie
Tumbleweed · F
@KingofBones1 I got you figured out, underneath that hard shell, you're just a big cuddly teddy bear 🥰
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
@Tumbleweed quiet hun you're going to ruin my reputation LOL wink
Tumbleweed · F
@KingofBones1
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Tumbleweed · F
@masterofyou
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
It's a combination of both but usually if a bad person doesn't like someone then the other person must be good but then eventually if the bad person starts liking them then that means the bad person has a poor taste in life 😀
Tumbleweed · F
@Donotfolowme makes sense!
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
@Tumbleweed I always do, that's my problem 😏
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@Tumbleweed You are welcome. Open minded. 😊
Tumbleweed · F
@Sojournersoul I try very hard to give people the benefit of the doubt :)
@Tumbleweed So do i until they show me different.
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Tumbleweed · F
@masterofyou Me too! I always try to stay on the sidelines with people like that because you never know what another person is dealing with. I'm glad I gave him the benefit of the doubt because he's truly a sweet man :)
@Tumbleweed you are very wise..... and very sweet....
Tumbleweed · F
@masterofyou Thank you 💕
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SW-User
@Tumbleweed i was just goosen around 🪿
Tumbleweed · F
@SW-User Silly goose!!
SW-User
@Tumbleweed yup...pretty much. We've established that too 😂

 
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