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Are pregnant women really that scary?

[center]I heard that they will turn very fat. (My aunt gained 60 pounds during her pregnancy)
and they are very impatient with everything.
and that they are very mean.
I don't want to be like that in the future...[/center]
ShockWave1983 · 36-40, F
Wow. I haven't met the same pregnant women you have, thank goodness.
I agree, they can become irritable at times, especially near the end of the pregnancy, but that's because they are getting impatient and excited and likely hurting all over. Most of the pregnant women I've known are happily excited and looking forward to being a mommy.
ShockWave1983 · 36-40, F
@Kawaii:sure it can be painful, but there are medications to help with that. The pain is the most forgettable part of having a baby.
Kawaii · F
@ShockWave1983: but isn't the medications bad for the baby?
ShockWave1983 · 36-40, F
@Kawaii: not the local anesthetics. Like the epidural. It just numbs mom from the outside. No pain, just a feeling of pressure.
SW-User
Imo the scariest part is that the stomach just blows up like a balloon and it has something living inside?! Like it's too fragile and hence dangerous lol
Kawaii · F
okay that sounds... IDK
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
My sister in law threw a full can of beer at me then hit me in my head with the telephone (the old telephones with a rotary dial) other than that she was fine.
Kawaii · F
lol other then that 😂
SW-User
I gained 11 pounds my first
6 pounds my second
8 pounds my 3rd
Kawaii · F
then how in the world did my aunt gain 60 😂
SW-User
@Kawaii: idk, it depends of the women I guess.
ShockWave1983 · 36-40, F
@Kawaii: too much high calorie food, too little physical exercise.
SickChick · 26-30, F
It depends on what you eat. Some overeat because they think they need to feed the baby. If you eat greasy fried chicken every day expect a huge weight gain. But when you're already 8 months pregnant i would imagine it would be hard to move. But after birth you'll lose some weight but you'll still have that baby fat because you need to take it easy months after birth. Its very dangerous if you dont.
ShockWave1983 · 36-40, F
How many babies have you had? How easy can anyone take it after a baby is born. Kids keep you very busy and active.
SickChick · 26-30, F
I dont have children. Your BODY needs to take it easy. You cant just have a baby and go back to work. You need to stay at home and be with the baby.
Kawaii · F
oh
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Kawaii · F
true.
LadyWioness · 56-60, F
It is different depending on the woman. Eating for 2 means to make healthy choices. I gained 23 pounds with my son, and worked out after I healed to lose it.
Kawaii · F
oh. is it hard losing it? isn't ur stomach all lose after having a baby... how do you deal with that?
LadyWioness · 56-60, F
@Kawaii: yes, some women get stretch marks. The only way to fix the skin is a tummy tuck. However, I am still beautiful even with stretch marks. My son is worth every one I have. I think after a certain age, tummies should be covered :)
Kawaii · F
@ZenLioness: oh. so thats no problem.
SW-User
I don't think so
they say a woman are never as beautiful as when she is pregnant
the nurturing side of you start to show
if you exercise daily you can keep exercising through pregnancy for your body is used to it
to keep fit
Kawaii · F
so exercise is the key...
SW-User
It's all true..
SW-User
@Kawaii: every pregnancy is unique to that woman. If you eat a load of crap you'll get fat but that can happen without being pregnant..mood swings can happen but they are manageable for most. Growing a baby is the most incredible thing you can ever do..if you want one that is!
Kawaii · F
@Lemony: oh.
SW-User
Indeed @Kawaii:
Angelly · F
It's good you are asking these questions & getting honest answers instead of receiving false information from your friends😘
Kawaii · F
IKR I'm so smart
Not all of them.. There's all types
Kawaii · F
@MrsNel: what?
@Kawaii: whatever kind of person that you are is what you are.. Pregnant or not. Not everyone gains a zillion pounds. Some do some don't.. I can't tell you how you or your life will be.. I'm not a fortune teller.. Sigh
Kawaii · F
@MrsNel: true
IchBin · 22-25, M
The only things that scare me are those void demon things from Warhammer 40k.
Kawaii · F
okay then
When did you join?
Kawaii · F
4 days ago
Oh
Kawaii · F
@TryingtoLava: why?
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Kawaii · F
they can be.
Goralski · 51-55, M
And they have canckles
Kawaii · F
they do?
SW-User
Btw they look sexy
Booyeah · 41-45, M
Kawaii · F
okay then.
Different women have different experiences. Are you a minor ?
@Kawaii: No, you can't, that's the choice you make when you're creating another life, that person deserves a healthy start. And by "exercise", even walking regularly helps with the weight---it makes the delivery easier, too.
ShockWave1983 · 36-40, F
@bijouxbroussard: you sound like a wise woman.
Kawaii · F
@bijouxbroussard: okay. so exercise is a must.

 
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