Husbands car stolen… he expects me to get a new car payment because he doesn’t want a car payment??

Y’all… our car was stolen right out of our driveway today. It was freezing my husband stupidly so freakin’ stupidly left the car running for 5 minutes while he ran inside to put the kids coats in and get back in the car. As he came outside they drove off… it’s not likely the car will be recovered according to police. They honestly didn’t even care, showing up like 3 hours later with a pen and pad to take notes. That’s it. It’ll be assigned to a detective but they said most vehicles are torn apart for parts so fast that it’s generally a futile effort to even try to recover them. I make more money than my husband so his first reaction was “gee I don’t want a car payment” he had paid his off.. so he’s like why don’t I pay off the rest of your car with the insurance money and you get a new one. Im like.. 1 year from paying mine off… I’ve worked really hard to pay it off… and basically he wants me to just go get a new car with a new payment that btw since I got my car rates have gone up a lot, interest rates and car prices. I don’t feel like it’s fair that just because he doesn’t “feel” like having a car payment that I have to go out and like double mine.. when I told him this he got really upset like gee I hate to inconvenience you.. making me feel like the bad guy. What do I do? Anyone been in this boat? Or had their car stolen? Was it found?