I am done with DM's

I am so over it and the expectations people put on you here if you dont reply to them when they want.
I am tired of seeing the gross perverted messages people send me and no matter how many times you block people, the messages keep coming. I have told people over and over again here that I do not check DM"s much anymore and I am not avoiding those I consider friends here but instead those who are gross people.

But of course people get angry over it and act like you are not a friend to them if you don't reply to their messages despite not even seeing them and they soon enough write in public acting like they are betrayed and victims.

Its all so tiring and just shows you truly don't know who people are when on this site.

So yeah final time I shall say this but I am not ever responding to any DM's ever again

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SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M

It seems to be a common problem for young women on this site.

Ya know, it's totally up to you, but you might want to change your demographic info from female in your 20's to something else...I can assure you as an old man, I very VERY rarely get any sort of sexual provocations in DM...the worst is usually butthurt crybabies who didn't like something I said to them in the public forum.

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

@SumKindaMunster can assure you that it’s not her age, it’s just people being idiots because they’re behind a screen. Men text anybody hoping somebody bites.

SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M

@Keepitsimple Yes. Thank you. That's a helpful clarification, and I don't doubt your experiences for a second.

I am sorry you ladies have to deal with this, it seems to be a common problem and I am not sure of a simple solution.

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

@SumKindaMunster Cant do anything about it but privately we warn each other.

Fluffybull · F

@Keepitsimple Agree. I hide my age and my profile pic is hardly provocative 😆