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Have you ever had a friend with benefits before? How’d it work out?

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I prefer not to have my friends be in same category as sex partners.
I also prefer a real relationship. People can get sex anywhere. It wouldn't work for me. I have to actually be in a real relationship before I consider sex and all that good stuff.
Viper · M
A couple of times, once it worked out extremely extremely well, until she found someone to be serious with, and that person was jealous and insecure of my relationship with her and how close we were.

Other times I just worked out all right. Once I accidentally did it with a crazy person, but I didn't realize they were crazy until I started spending a lot more time with them.
reflectingmonkey · 51-55, M
it was awesome. there was a time when I was too free-spirited to have a girlfriend so instead I had a "very good" friend. that went on for about 15 years. now I have a girlfriend so we don't see each other in that way anymore but we're still friends.
@reflectingmonkey 15 years??And you never caught feelings for her or the other way around?
reflectingmonkey · 51-55, M
@Creep she had a boyfriend, I, on the other hand, am not the unfaithful kind so I could never cheat on my girlfriend.there was a time when I would have liked her to leave him but I'm very happy with the girlfriend I have now.
I have this friend who has a little brother about my age and we practically grew up together. Long story short, we got drunk one night and had gross drunk sex. We hooked up for a while after that. We stopped randomly but it was a giant secret. It never got weird I think. We still talk now.
AlyAngel · F
Yeah. Three different ones. I married one. The other one I'm good friends with and one was a mistake.
ServantOfTheGoddess · 61-69, M
@AlyAngel Wow this could make a novel!
@AlyAngel interesting
DavidT8899 · 22-25, M
I've played with other guys before,so that was kind of that sort of situation.It worked out fine.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
Oh she had benefits alright…very nice benefits.
newgirl · 56-60, F
Yes. Worked out great. It was what we both wanted and it lasted years.
How’d you not catch feelings for him? @newgirl
newgirl · 56-60, F
@Creep It was sex. Good sex. I didn't have feelings for him, we weren't dating. We were having fun.
ServantOfTheGoddess · 61-69, M
@newgirl I'm glad it worked for you but for me personally I cannot imagine sex only being "fun".
Yes, decades ago. Worked out well, until after a year or so when he started to get jealous of one particular guy I was seeing.
Bigmike2523 · 46-50, M
I've had several over the years, most im still friends with
Just the one i was married to
PhluorescentLeech · 36-40, M
It always gets complicated
TurtlePink · 22-25, F
@TurtlePink What’s funny sir?
TurtlePink · 22-25, F
@Creep my fwb
Azlotto · M
Yes.

[quote]How’d it work out?[/quote]

Terrible. My wife found out...jk...I have never had a friend with benefits.
@Azlotto Haha 😅
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
I have. Worked out...largely as one might expect. I still talk to her.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

 
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