Are you for or against polygamy?

@Babylon specifically how?
I don't have to explain a lot thankfully because we all happen to have similar features many outsiders assume one is a partner and one is a relative. We don't typically introduce ourselves with relationship titles and they don't ask. We don't lie but we also don't volunteer unnessisary information because who's business is it really? If someone asks "what dose your husband do?" I'll just go with one or the other.

@JamieDeer just more so the fathering of the children. That was my main interest. I always imagined that the fathers would remain separate and focus on their own children but you describe otherwise which makes sense but I've just never seen or experienced parenting like that in action 😅
So you can imagine my human curiosity of course

@Babylon I know a few "step" fathers who are simply dad including my own father who isn't my biological dad so I guess it isn't weird for me. I doubt I could love someone so selfish like that anyway.

@Carlisle when you're kept from something you want by someone else, you seek it more sometimes. To keep people from certain things is the point of laws, but there will always be people who wanted that forbidden thing and think it was a good thing for them, if that makes sense.

Some other people, they trust lawmakers and worship them in a sense. Whatever the lawmaker writes, they take it to be good and abide by it.

We ban lots of bad things but only certain things increase in desire publicly when banned. This is because public opinion on certain things or the zeitgeist may hold something as acceptable, kinda like how drugs have been banned in the U.S. and are sought after even more in America. Driving under the influence was another thing that was banned here for example, but you don't find the majority of people increasing or fighting more to drink and drive as much. Accidents by drunk driving in teens has gone down annually, but everyone likes to drink. It's not that banning it has particularly made it more or less appealing, it's that people don't wanna do it

Hopefully this articulates what I was trying to highlight 😅
That it's dependent on the desires of the people. If they want certain privileges and think it's good, banning them tends to have that inverse effect of increased desire, because they're out of tune with the law

@Babylon I think wanting sex and having sex is a desire that is overly policed in some countries. Human desires are not criminal if they don’t hurt someone.
Anyway I have my opinions which you probably won’t like and I don’t want to get into.
So let’s leave it at that

@Carlisle I actually agree with you with the policing of wanting sex tbh

We'll leave it however you want but I sure hope you are holding back because you think I won't like it 😅
I actually enjoy hearing from others. It's a means for me to think and grow so feel free to share with me if you ever want to. At most, I'll probably get curious and ask for a little detail but it's whatever you're comfy with