Are you for or against polygamy?

Poll - Total Votes: 16

I am for polygamy

I am fine with polygamy

I am indifferent to polygamy

I am not okay with polygamy

I am against polygamy

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What makes you hold your stance about it?

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JamieDeer ·

I don't really like to advertise this because people are weird. I have 2 husbands. We live together and share 3 children. We've been a family like this for over 18 years and are very happy. We have well-adjusted kids who love their dads and thrive on having 2 very attentive fathers while many of their peers have absent ones.
It's not a kink so don't even try asking about my bedroom life. I won't answer and you'd be bored anyway.

Babylon

@JamieDeer that's really interesting tbh. I've always been curious about how the social dynamic looks like for your particular relationship

JamieDeer ·

@Babylon specifically how?
I don't have to explain a lot thankfully because we all happen to have similar features many outsiders assume one is a partner and one is a relative. We don't typically introduce ourselves with relationship titles and they don't ask. We don't lie but we also don't volunteer unnessisary information because who's business is it really? If someone asks "what dose your husband do?" I'll just go with one or the other.

Babylon

@JamieDeer just more so the fathering of the children. That was my main interest. I always imagined that the fathers would remain separate and focus on their own children but you describe otherwise which makes sense but I've just never seen or experienced parenting like that in action 😅
So you can imagine my human curiosity of course

JamieDeer ·

@Babylon I know a few "step" fathers who are simply dad including my own father who isn't my biological dad so I guess it isn't weird for me. I doubt I could love someone so selfish like that anyway.