Possibly a dumb question…

Ok, so I know this is likely a stupid question and yes I need therapy but, I am curious to pose it to the masses and hear the response.

In a relationship, friendship, co-worker or any situation that it applies, if you tell them that something that is a hot button issue and upsets you (not a hot button issue for them) and their response is you’ve done it to me a hundred times so get over it.

If I have done it to them even though it doesn’t bother them am I in the wrong?

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MarkPaul · 26-30, M

Okay... this is a stupid question. If it bothers you and you willingly do to others, then 1). it's wrong and you are in the wrong; 2). it's an indication you have no or (close to none) empathy; 3). you probably can't be trusted.

Marstar22 · 36-40, F

@MarkPaul ouch. You don’t know me and I have more empathy than most. Especially more than said person.

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@Marstar22 I know you from what you have chosen to reveal about yourself. And, based on that I have given you my diagnosis. Isn't that what you wanted?

Marstar22 · 36-40, F

@MarkPaul yes it is. Thank you for your opinion