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Do you like sensitive men ?

I don't find men attractive if they tell me that I make them upset or cry.

I'm not going to make fun of them. I will be kind to them , but I have to put them in the friendzone afterwards.
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Yes, but only as long as their sensitivity extends to caring about other people's health and feelings. The guy who is merely hypersensitive and only upset at what others say and do to him personally isn't as attractive. The man who genuinely cares and is "sensitive" about the wellbeing of animals, trees, women and kids is my kind of folks.
[@1212591,HauntedWitch] Perfectly put! 馃憦馃憦馃憦馃憣
Beautywithin31-35, F
To a degree, that's why so many men have mental health issue as they feel they cant show any emotional or sensitive side.
[@701201,Beautywithin] I'm not going to make fun of them. I will be kind to them , but I have to put them in the friendzone afterwards.
[@701201,Beautywithin] Right! and THAT is why they kill.
DearAmbellina211341-45, F
I prefer sensitive men but not crybabies. There is a difference. One cries when it's a good reason to cry (death of loved one, loss of livelihood, loss of a pet, etc). The other cries when he doesn't get his way. 馃檮
Nitro526-30, M
I mean men have feelings too.
[@618793,Nitro5] If a sob is required one can have it in a crowd
Nitro526-30, M
[@1181110,fernie2] I suppose so within certain limits depending on the matter. If it's a grave issue i guess people could understand.
[@618793,Nitro5] Not doing something natural because other people will judge is a serious weakness
[@1227179,BoyByTheBay] why isn't it a good thing?
That's actually a trait I admire most, that raw vulnerability, and I'm the type to naturally break down those gaurds. Men have feelings too, and it's the REAL men who admit they have them.
PepsiColaP22-25, F
yeah its hot when they are vulnerable ,like every other human
[@1090951,PepsiColaP] You kinky girl. I can see you totally getting hot and bothered over some strong guy getting sensitive. You too cute. We gonna fuck now, or what? *starts tying your arms and legs down*
HermannFegelein22-25, M
imagine if you cried after dropping your ice cream on the floor. Now that would be pretty funny to watch. A tough mean looking guy should do a social experiment like this to see how people would react. It鈥檇 be funny to watch. Although I guess all the wasted ice cream would be pretty sad 馃槃
Casheyane26-30, F
[@480784,HermannFegelein] How dare you do that to ice cream! XD
Yes. Vulnerability is a different kind of intimacy
LittleBallOfFire18-21, F
Well that鈥檚 toxicccc
RedPowerRangerThe2nd31-35, M
That's why it's important for men to spend a lot of time with other men, because they seemingly can't rely on their significant others for simple talk about their own emotions.
RedPowerRangerThe2nd31-35, M
[@1181110,fernie2] No, YOU said husbands don't listen, I'm taking it upon your word that women have their own laments concerning their husbands, if that's the case, talk about it to your girls.
[@1227340,RedPowerRangerThe2nd] I have way more experience with all of that than you have kiddo. Girls are under 18. Evolve kiddo
RedPowerRangerThe2nd31-35, M
[@1181110,fernie2] Take care.
Asmae31-35, F
Yeah. At least it means his heart isn鈥檛 made of ice.
LittleBallOfFire18-21, F
[@509132,Asmae] exactly
BluntSm0ker26-30, M
But a simp wont be able to handle the sister from hell.
[@509132,Asmae] yes, a warm heart means he probably won't blacken your eyes or cheat.
Straight people are so fucked up.
[@401815,KaliKali] I often find daily reasons, why I鈥檓 glad I鈥檓 gay.
Coralmist36-40, F
I think if he complains about like, everything, then no. But if he expresses sadness sometimes, cries, or is vulnerable, I admire it and know that it's part of being human. I like a man that feels he doesn't always need to shut off emotions or be A *MAN.*
theworldofGia26-30, F
I can totally get that. When I was younger, like 18 to 24 I used to get turn off easily with men who show emotion but now, I started to appreciate men who show bare feelings without trying to pretend. It makes me feel safe.
elafina31-35, F
Yes I absolutely love them! But I need that they balance it with other masculine qualities such as stability, directness, protection <3
[@917679,elafina] "stability, directness, protection?" You don't possess those qualities? You are feeding the male ego as if they were stronger than we are. We are incredibly strong and resourceful
elafina31-35, F
[@1181110,fernie2] I didn't say that females are not strong. On the contrary, i do think as the female in general being stronger actually than the male. But I do love to relax knowing he's taking care of things. And I do like to dream knowing someone's holding a strong grip onto reality for me. I like to exchange roles as well.
sircartier18-21, F
to a certain extent. i鈥檓 extremely sensitive and don鈥檛 want someone like me. or else all we鈥檒l do is cry together
[@1177522,sircartier] Misery loves company though
Keepitsimple51-55, F
Sensitive or vulnerable. I don鈥檛 like whiny men and having to choose my words so I don鈥檛 break their ego and spirit.
KuroNeko41-45, F
I prefer a person who can articulate their emotions to someone who bottles it all up.
riseofthemachine36-40, M
Sensitive men are the best . It shows they have feelings . I'm a sensitive person but a bit to far sensitive being honest .
I went to the moon and back for a woman before and not out of desperation, it's just liked that woman and my motto today is let go , let go of everything in life that you cling too , otherwise you feel pain .
That's were contentment comes from then , even being single
FreeSpirit146-50, F
I like manly men but they can have a sensitive side as well.
DragonFruit61-69, M
I like them better than I like insensitive men.
I just like what I like. Every man is really different that I've been in relationships with. Some I've really liked a lot about them and others just not right for me. Has little to do with being sensitive or not. Each has their own strengths and weaknesses for different reasons.
ImRileyTheDog18-21, F
Men should be themselves
Fable26-30, F
I sincerely do. I feel like it's not very common though. I WILL say, and this goes for both men and women: It's not attractive to cry, if you cry all the time. Just like it's not attractive to speak, if you never shut up.

What attracts me in both men and women, is a strong sense of emotion.
yeah it turns me on
nightjourney26-30, F
I acaully find it refreshing when i see a man cry. Doesn't mean he's less strong to protect just means he has a huge heart 鉂..but too much ya thas a problem 馃槀
Turkr36-40, M
[@1226970,Fariss11] a man's cry is [i]refreshing[/i] 馃榿.. oh I love this post
nightjourney26-30, F
[@1179458,Turkr] i know all man cry but the hide it so well. But tearful eyes r beautiful 馃槏馃槀
Turkr36-40, M
[@1226970,Fariss11] yep, in an interview Michael Caine once said, [i]when men cry, men do anything but cry, so you must fight the tears to act it [/i]
Turkr36-40, M
I think you've changed your post and it is the totally opposite now, am I right? this one makes better sense actually
[@1179458,Turkr] what do you mean?
Turkr36-40, M
[@1229922,Curxuia] idk probably I've half ass read your post, it was a long day
chasingWednesday36-40, M
I like a little sensitivity but an overly sensitive man is a turn off for me. I'm attracted to masculine strong men.
Iamonfire66631-35, F
I like men who are sensitive but I don鈥檛 want someone who cries all the time. I want him to be sensitive and caring.
Turkr36-40, M
so first you'll make them cry and then they gotta tell you you hurt them and [i]then [/i]you find them attractive, am I getting this right?? 馃榿
BlueVeins18-21, M
We can't control what we're attracted to. I like sensitive people, but I don't expect that from everyone.
I usually have a couple of crying fits everyday just to get the sensitivity out of my system.
SnowBlack18-21, F
I wouldn't want a crybaby or a cold stiff. Somewhere in the middle is best.
Lilymoon46-50, F
Crying no, but sensitive as far as sympathetic and understanding, then yes.
AlexaiSchlomokov51-55, F
I like people that are true to themselves, whatever form that may be
Sara can bring a tear to the eye of even the strongest man.
Casheyane26-30, F
It tends to be a hassle. But they can be fun.
Rokasu31-35, M
Man you got issues galore with men.
[@16030,Rokasu] Issues "galore?" really?" That is a great example of an OVERLY sensitive male
They are the only men I can tolerate
Yes, but I don鈥檛 like em crying!
SaturdayhasTURDinit41-45, M
Been rejected much?

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