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Do you like sensitive men ?

I don't find men attractive if they tell me that I make them upset or cry.

I'm not going to make fun of them. I will be kind to them , but I have to put them in the friendzone afterwards.
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Yes, but only as long as their sensitivity extends to caring about other people's health and feelings. The guy who is merely hypersensitive and only upset at what others say and do to him personally isn't as attractive. The man who genuinely cares and is "sensitive" about the wellbeing of animals, trees, women and kids is my kind of folks.
Fluffybull · F
@SW-User Perfectly put! 👏👏👏👌
Beautywithin · 36-40, F
To a degree, that's why so many men have mental health issue as they feel they cant show any emotional or sensitive side.
@Beautywithin I'm not going to make fun of them. I will be kind to them , but I have to put them in the friendzone afterwards.
@Beautywithin Right! and THAT is why they kill.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
I prefer sensitive men but not crybabies. There is a difference. One cries when it's a good reason to cry (death of loved one, loss of livelihood, loss of a pet, etc). The other cries when he doesn't get his way. 🙄
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I mean men have feelings too.
@SW-User If a sob is required one can have it in a crowd
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@fernie2 I suppose so within certain limits depending on the matter. If it's a grave issue i guess people could understand.
@SW-User Not doing something natural because other people will judge is a serious weakness
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@SW-User why isn't it a good thing?
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MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
That's actually a trait I admire most, that raw vulnerability, and I'm the type to naturally break down those gaurds. Men have feelings too, and it's the REAL men who admit they have them.
yeah its hot when they are vulnerable ,like every other human
@PepsiColaP You kinky girl. I can see you totally getting hot and bothered over some strong guy getting sensitive. You too cute. We gonna fuck now, or what? *starts tying your arms and legs down*
HermannFegelein · 26-30, M
imagine if you cried after dropping your ice cream on the floor. Now that would be pretty funny to watch. A tough mean looking guy should do a social experiment like this to see how people would react. It’d be funny to watch. Although I guess all the wasted ice cream would be pretty sad 😄
Casheyane · F
@HermannFegelein How dare you do that to ice cream! XD
NickiHijab · F
Yes. Vulnerability is a different kind of intimacy
BlueVeins · 22-25
We can't control what we're attracted to. I like sensitive people, but I don't expect that from everyone.
LittleBallOfFire · 22-25, F
Well that’s toxicccc
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That's why it's important for men to spend a lot of time with other men, because they seemingly can't rely on their significant others for simple talk about their own emotions.
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@fernie2 No, YOU said husbands don't listen, I'm taking it upon your word that women have their own laments concerning their husbands, if that's the case, talk about it to your girls.
@SW-User I have way more experience with all of that than you have kiddo. Girls are under 18. Evolve kiddo
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@fernie2 Take care.
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Yeah. At least it means his heart isn’t made of ice.
LittleBallOfFire · 22-25, F
@SW-User exactly
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@SW-User yes, a warm heart means he probably won't blacken your eyes or cheat.
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Straight people are so fucked up.
@SW-User I often find daily reasons, why I’m glad I’m gay.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
I think if he complains about like, everything, then no. But if he expresses sadness sometimes, cries, or is vulnerable, I admire it and know that it's part of being human. I like a man that feels he doesn't always need to shut off emotions or be A *MAN.*
theworldofGia · 31-35, F
I can totally get that. When I was younger, like 18 to 24 I used to get turn off easily with men who show emotion but now, I started to appreciate men who show bare feelings without trying to pretend. It makes me feel safe.
elafina · 36-40, F
Yes I absolutely love them! But I need that they balance it with other masculine qualities such as stability, directness, protection <3
@elafina "stability, directness, protection?" You don't possess those qualities? You are feeding the male ego as if they were stronger than we are. We are incredibly strong and resourceful
elafina · 36-40, F
@fernie2 I didn't say that females are not strong. On the contrary, i do think as the female in general being stronger actually than the male. But I do love to relax knowing he's taking care of things. And I do like to dream knowing someone's holding a strong grip onto reality for me. I like to exchange roles as well.
hotarabgirl · 22-25, F
to a certain extent. i’m extremely sensitive and don’t want someone like me. or else all we’ll do is cry together
@hotarabgirl Misery loves company though
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Sensitive or vulnerable. I don’t like whiny men and having to choose my words so I don’t break their ego and spirit.
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
I prefer a person who can articulate their emotions to someone who bottles it all up.
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
Sensitive men are the best . It shows they have feelings . I'm a sensitive person but a bit to far sensitive being honest .
I went to the moon and back for a woman before and not out of desperation, it's just liked that woman and my motto today is let go , let go of everything in life that you cling too , otherwise you feel pain .
That's were contentment comes from then , even being single
FreeSpirit1 · 51-55, F
I like manly men but they can have a sensitive side as well.
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
I like them better than I like insensitive men.
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
Men should be themselves
Sheer · F
I sincerely do. I feel like it's not very common though. I WILL say, and this goes for both men and women: It's not attractive to cry, if you cry all the time. Just like it's not attractive to speak, if you never shut up.

What attracts me in both men and women, is a strong sense of emotion.
HannahSky · F
I just like what I like. Every man is really different that I've been in relationships with. Some I've really liked a lot about them and others just not right for me. Has little to do with being sensitive or not. Each has their own strengths and weaknesses for different reasons.
yeah it turns me on
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Londonn · 36-40, M
@nightjourney a man's cry is [i]refreshing[/i] 😁.. oh I love this post
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Londonn · 36-40, M
@nightjourney yep, in an interview Michael Caine once said, [i]when men cry, men do anything but cry, so you must fight the tears to act it [/i]
Londonn · 36-40, M
I think you've changed your post and it is the totally opposite now, am I right? this one makes better sense actually
@Londonn what do you mean?
Londonn · 36-40, M
@Sinful idk probably I've half ass read your post, it was a long day
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Magenta · F
I like a little sensitivity but an overly sensitive man is a turn off for me. I'm attracted to masculine strong men.
Londonn · 36-40, M
so first you'll make them cry and then they gotta tell you you hurt them and [i]then [/i]you find them attractive, am I getting this right?? 😁
JohnnyNoir · 56-60, M
I usually have a couple of crying fits everyday just to get the sensitivity out of my system.
Lilymoon · F
Crying no, but sensitive as far as sympathetic and understanding, then yes.
SnowBlack · 18-21, F
I wouldn't want a crybaby or a cold stiff. Somewhere in the middle is best.
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I like people that are true to themselves, whatever form that may be
Sara can bring a tear to the eye of even the strongest man.
Casheyane · F
It tends to be a hassle. But they can be fun.
Rokasu · 36-40, M
Man you got issues galore with men.
@Rokasu Issues "galore?" really?" That is a great example of an OVERLY sensitive male
They are the only men I can tolerate
Wiseacre · F
Yes, but I don’t like em crying!
PhaqueYou · M
Been rejected much?
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I like men who are sensitive but I don’t want someone who cries all the time. I want him to be sensitive and caring.

 
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