I'm very confused

about myself. Someone told me to just be myself (i appreciate the help) which would be great advice if i knew who or what i am. I was thinking about it and i don't truly have a personality, i tend to take on the personality of the person i am talking to at the time. I don't know who i am, hell i'm 55 years old and i still don't know what i want to be when i grow up! LOL I remember that assignment from grade school, i had to write an essay about what i want to be when i grow up...i failed.

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curiosi · 61-69, F

As unpleasant as it sounds the cure is solitude. It is in solitude we learn the most about ourselves.

istillhaveanameitsrick · 56-60, M

@curiosi I have spent the last 27 years pretty much alone. I drive a truck and spend 3-4 weeks at a time away from home, i don't socialize when i'm on the road. All that being alone has accomplished is giving myself too much time to think and internalize.