I lost a friend as i trust my bestie alot a friend for whom i had feelings and now i came to know he still loves his ex and i feel so ashamed and depressed
@Deadgirl Yea. Hope you feel better soon but I still can't. I'm not accepting, I'm resenting and these things dont help in healing process. Hope for you it will be less tough 🌹
No need to feel ashamed, nothing you can control about his or your feelings, but yeah, I can understand being depressed about it. Hope things get better for you.
@Deadgirl You are not a robot, feelings happen beyond your control. It is nothing to feel guilty or ashamed over. I understand being hurt, feeling depressed over it, but give yourself a break, at least you can feel and are not some sociopath.
Love Is Never something to feel ashamed about. The ability to love and express that to another is a sign of deep courage.
We don't determine the flow of the universe and anything can happen with the benefit of time. But at worst, you were open and fortunate enough to feel one of humanity's greatest experiences. And who knows what the future holds?
You have no reason to feel ashamed. You had no way of knowing this would happen. The ending can be devastating but you can and will get over this. Take your time and take it slow. I have been through the same. Much love and well wishes for you to feel better.